Now I don't want to generalize too much, but I've had several experiences in the not so distant past that I feel I should pass on as a warning.
First girl was a 7/10...met at a New Years party. Seemed very down to earth, good body, had a great career and made lots of money...though somewhat reserved and seemed to be a little inexperienced with men even though she was 29.
She was a tall(5'9) nordic type and very into basketball, playing since she learned how to walk. Played in adult leagues etc, always looking to shoot hoops, loved the NBA etc
So things are going well for 3 months. We're texting and calling each other, she's initiating. Never breaking any dates...but never really wanting to take it to another level either.
Then all of a sudden I get a text from her on the day of a date and she cancels because one of her adult league teams needs a player...fine it happened once. But I felt kind of jilted. The next week I planned a beautiful outing in NY for the two of us that she was really excited about...dinner, concert in the park, museum etc. She seemed totally bowled over...until the friday before our outing she texts me "Got another weekend b-ball tourney, can't make it tom. :-(
And I know she wasn't lying because her teams all posts pics and results on facebook and there she is playing, so she's not running around with another guy.
I sat back and looked at things...29 years old, she's got a great chance with a great guy who really cares about her, and here she is running around every spare second she gets with a bunch of lesbos, recent college grads, and girls upwards of 10-12 years younger than she is (she's the oldest on all her teams) playing meaningless games for zero money. What satisfaction she gets from this, I have no idea.
so beware women in their late 20's/early 30's who are soccer/basketball/tennis etc freaks. There's a reason they're not married...either they're lesbians or they like the sport more than they'll ever like you. They'll never take it to the next level because it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, you will never be allowed to encroach on their 1 true love
First girl was a 7/10...met at a New Years party. Seemed very down to earth, good body, had a great career and made lots of money...though somewhat reserved and seemed to be a little inexperienced with men even though she was 29.
She was a tall(5'9) nordic type and very into basketball, playing since she learned how to walk. Played in adult leagues etc, always looking to shoot hoops, loved the NBA etc
So things are going well for 3 months. We're texting and calling each other, she's initiating. Never breaking any dates...but never really wanting to take it to another level either.
Then all of a sudden I get a text from her on the day of a date and she cancels because one of her adult league teams needs a player...fine it happened once. But I felt kind of jilted. The next week I planned a beautiful outing in NY for the two of us that she was really excited about...dinner, concert in the park, museum etc. She seemed totally bowled over...until the friday before our outing she texts me "Got another weekend b-ball tourney, can't make it tom. :-(
And I know she wasn't lying because her teams all posts pics and results on facebook and there she is playing, so she's not running around with another guy.
I sat back and looked at things...29 years old, she's got a great chance with a great guy who really cares about her, and here she is running around every spare second she gets with a bunch of lesbos, recent college grads, and girls upwards of 10-12 years younger than she is (she's the oldest on all her teams) playing meaningless games for zero money. What satisfaction she gets from this, I have no idea.
so beware women in their late 20's/early 30's who are soccer/basketball/tennis etc freaks. There's a reason they're not married...either they're lesbians or they like the sport more than they'll ever like you. They'll never take it to the next level because it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, you will never be allowed to encroach on their 1 true love
