TheTraveller
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2003
- Messages
- 184
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I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. Attractive, intelligent, and thus far I'm having a great time with her. She's definitely exhibiting high interest behavior and enjoys her time with me.
That being said, there have been a few things that have come up in conversation that have really puzzled me. First, she said her relationships with her friends can be rocky. That confused me, but I didn't probe further. She's also talked a bit about her family. She was at her grandmother's house recently, and after telling me about her day there she mentioned that her grandmother is bipolar.
This got me thinking - should I ask this girl if she has any type of personality disorder? Should I dig more into the whole rocky friendships thing?
Me? I have mild social anxiety and obviously from the post I can get a little mildly obsessive/paranoid about certain things. I understand nobody's perfect but I absolutely cannot deal with a girl who has a personality disorder. I dealt enough with instability growing up and will not tolerate it with a girl.
Thanks,
-t
That being said, there have been a few things that have come up in conversation that have really puzzled me. First, she said her relationships with her friends can be rocky. That confused me, but I didn't probe further. She's also talked a bit about her family. She was at her grandmother's house recently, and after telling me about her day there she mentioned that her grandmother is bipolar.
This got me thinking - should I ask this girl if she has any type of personality disorder? Should I dig more into the whole rocky friendships thing?
Me? I have mild social anxiety and obviously from the post I can get a little mildly obsessive/paranoid about certain things. I understand nobody's perfect but I absolutely cannot deal with a girl who has a personality disorder. I dealt enough with instability growing up and will not tolerate it with a girl.
Thanks,
-t