How susceptible are you to falling for toxic women, scams, schemes or two bit hustlers? Or do you consider yourself a gullible, weak minded, push over for a come up?
Can you spot a scammer or toxic woman and if so can you out scam the scammers and those who are wolves in sheep's clothing with a smile on their face but a knife to your back?
Let's share with our fellow djs what signs toxic women give as red flag heads up or various cons you may have fell for in the past due to your own greed or need.
Semi long post but hoping his can help some new members or people trying to improve themselves.
I used to be really susceptible to this shyt for the sole reason of me being desperate and wanting a girl by my side and simply not being socially adept enough to read the signs. (smh at myself).
Although I did have bad feelings in my gut, I just never listened to it.
Girlfriend of a couple years ago would basically use me to sleep at my house (my parents house lol) because she had daddy AND mommy issues. She just didn't get along with her parents and she was an only child.
She was also half Polish half Russian and her parents didn't speak a lick of English, so there was a cultural difference between us. AKA she didn't understand a lot of my humor and it made conversing with her kinda weird lol.
She also had an ex that she was dating for a year before he broke up with her and started dating me "exclusively" like a couple weeks later (smh at myself again).
So as you can see lots of red flags that I ignored.
And to top it all off I met her through online dating and every single one of her pictures was a sexy selfie of herself, not a hint of any social life with friends, as I found out later she really didn't have any (facepalm).
I will say this though... this girl was a f*cking dime, her body literally perfect hourglass shape, hot face, nice bubble butt, perfect supple C cups, etc.
Honestly surprised my past self was able to pull her haha.
So that's the reason I stayed because I didn't have abundance, she was the only one I was talking to, and I thought I'd hit the jackpot having sex with this girl.
Everything ended with her breaking up with me after a couple months of manipulative bipolar behavior, and I was left to sulk into a depression. OVER A STUPID BIMBO lol.
Anyways, I vowed to change my life and ways of thinking since it hurt so bad and after lurking on forums, including this one, and applying others techniques and adopting their mindsets I began to change my life for the better and become the man I want to be. Still always a work in progress and improving but I'm A BILLION times better off than I was.
And as of about a month ago I decided to devote myself to Don Juan life and some of my time each day to helping others who are In or have been in these situations.
I hope this example helps others!
Main point, as a lot of others preach here, is to ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT. No matter how much you want to live in self delusions.
Good morning and peace out, time to get on the work grind.