Are you a day 1 or day 2 guy? (or 3+)

[Sofomore]

Just curious what your style for picking up chicks is. I've found that I consistently do better if I end the first date on a good note and play it cool until the next date. Whenever I try to pull the same night I usually end up with some sort of resistance that I can't bypass. Even with proper escalation the girls don't want to come back to my place. I usually have to set the stage on the second date. It's been like this for the last 3 years.

I want to be able to pull the first night and I understand that most quality girls don't put out right away, not really looking for a "keeper" right now...just ONS.

What I'm trying to get at is...how do I turn myself from a "day 2" guy to a "day 1 guy"? Possibly I need to build more comfort?

 

[LeonSK]

I always try finish the deal on Day 1, but if I sense strong resistance, I play it cool. Another problem is you may not have turned the girls on, not enough kissing or other plays before you try to engage in sexual contact. Try being a little patient and keeping it flow instead of thinking "I need to fxxx her tonight". Once you turn her on, zero resistance.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

I usually can get sex night one except that I find the girls are usually on their periods. I'm sure girls use that as an excuse all the time, but I get far enough to know that they're not lying.

Seems kind of weird though.

 

[RagingBalls]

It's not consistent for me. Some girls with high IL are in day 1-2, while there are some girls that after day 1 i lost interest in pursuing them. The most memorable i had was banging 2 different girls(plates)and i got them both on day 1 a few days apart and later on i discovered that they're cousins through their myspace . Got into a mess with that one. lol

 

[SgtSplacker]

The only day ones I have pulled include a very fun evening. If we go out and totally vibe and have a great time it's gonna happen..

 

[benogan]

read some stuff on end game. are you escalating physically during Day1?