So I met a girl through a friend, we hangout once, and the second time she asks me this question: "Are we just friends, or is this a date?". I say, "It's both."
I didnt want to set up the expectation that I'm hanging out with her strictly platonically. She also pulled the, "Why did you want to hangout after you met me?" line. I said, "Because you have a unique personality and stood out from the rest".
So the date was cancelled, because her dad's in the hospital. We've been holding off on getting together at the moment, because we're busy at school. .. She just got out of an LTR, and I found out from a friend that she's not looking for anything serious at the moment, which is fine by me.
Have I lost any value here, because I've indirectly telegraphed interest? Any other pointers on this situation would be appreciated as well.
Also note: She's indicated her interest by calling/texting me, as well as taking the initiative to add me to MSN.
Thanks guys!
I didnt want to set up the expectation that I'm hanging out with her strictly platonically. She also pulled the, "Why did you want to hangout after you met me?" line. I said, "Because you have a unique personality and stood out from the rest".
So the date was cancelled, because her dad's in the hospital. We've been holding off on getting together at the moment, because we're busy at school. .. She just got out of an LTR, and I found out from a friend that she's not looking for anything serious at the moment, which is fine by me.
Have I lost any value here, because I've indirectly telegraphed interest? Any other pointers on this situation would be appreciated as well.
Also note: She's indicated her interest by calling/texting me, as well as taking the initiative to add me to MSN.
Thanks guys!