Any tips on sex for a 25 y/o virgin

[Abbott]

Originally posted by Tazman
It was different when I was 16, but at 25 your "expected" to have been around the block atleast a few times. Its going to crush me to be rejected because of my inexperience.

How about if you're 19.5 or 20? 22? Are you expected to just know by then?

Edit: FIVE HUNDRED POSTS!! Yeah! But I'm still not any good with women. Doggone it. Hopefully I won't still be saying this when I reach 1,000 posts.

 

[AverageFC]

How about if you're 19.5 or 20? 22? Are you expected to just know by then

If you're the older one, you're expected to 'just know'.

you dont give a damn about the other party involved because 9 times out of 10 a b*tch will drop you like its hot if she finds out your inexperienced.

Do not speak of your inexperience

Are you saying if all you want is sex, go this route, or if you want a relationship? I feel if it's a relationship laying all your cards on the table is appropriate, I'd kinda like to know where someone that could potentially be a life mate has been.

 

[SheepSter]

OK a couple of tips for the first time. At one point in foreplay when you are passionately kissing her, start to "dry hump" her. Make the moves with both of you still wearing your clothes. Every time I do this it gets them hot. Also progress slowly and take your time to really enjoy the experience. Smell her and tell her she smells very nice, comfort building, do this like 5 to 10 minutes. At first it sounds kinda weird but they can get pretty crazy while your doing this . Just be cool, I mean there are worst things in the world then your first time in bed with a woman, think about it. And don't forget first take of your socks .

 

[Leporello]

I'd actually find a woman who wants to have sex with you before obsessing over how it will be.

 

[thefonz]

Originally posted by Leporello
I'd actually find a woman who wants to have sex with you before obsessing over how it will be.

Agreed, start at step 1

 

[Tazman]

I recently had a chance to, but didn't make any moves for obvious reasons. Well I don't know really, this girl I just met came over to me (when ppl were outside the apt. smoking, etc.) and started wispering in my ear and had her hand on my leg, which I figured was a green light, but I didn't make a move. Won't ever happen again, I'm just going to do it.

 

[Teen Spirit]

My first time, my dik brushed against the bed sheets and I prematurely ejaculated.

 

[Leporello]

My first time, I used the wrong brand of condoms (the kind that numb you) so i lost all feeling there (not permenantly, thank goodness), and the girl started crying because she thought she'd turned me off.

Don't let that happen to you.

 

[PurpleHaze]

bro your gonna be fine. what i suggest is to eat her out first and right when she's about to orgasm stop and start having sex with her. this is the best move u can make because ur not gonna last long the first couple of times and you don't want to leave her unsatisfied. So, when you start having sex with her she's going to orgasm quickly because she's already almost there from you eating her out. good luck to you and dont make it a big deal. the bigger you make it in ur mind the worse your gonna do. just be relaxed and confident and you'll be find. just remember all those tricks from the porn

good luck buddy

 

[Tazman]

lol, thx man. Porn makes it look so damn easy.

 

[Iguana]

Tazman, I kind of have the same insecurity you do.

There's this girl I like VERY MUCH and she's experienced while I'm a virgin. I so want to have a relationship with her, but I'm kind of afraid of how I'm going to act the first time (if we ever have sex, please God please! haha).

I understand you so much dude. But just don't plan it. Make it spontaneous.

@PurpleHaze: what do you mean by eat her out first?

Iguana
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