Insouciant
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 10, 2012
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Excellent insight! I tend to agree with this, Zekko.zekko said:Well, that's more than likely the case here. But what if she really likes him? I mean, clearly the guy is moving way too fast at the very least. But speaking of painting with a broad brush, you surely can't say that every guy who marries a woman with kids is emergency glass, and is being settled for. What if they really like each other?
By the same token, look at one of the most common PUA concepts. That the woman will fvck guys she is attracted to until she is 30, then suddenly realize her value is dropping, so she settles for and marries some chump that doesn't turn her on. Now I'm sure this is a common scenario. But rather than settling, isn't it possible (in some cases at least) that the woman has matured enough to realize that her taste in men has been flawed, and she wants something else?
I know I dated women when I was younger that weren't exactly good for me (other than teaching me not to deal with those types). I also used to have a fondness for slvts (not for relationships, but because they were easy), whereas now they disgust me. If I can sharpen my taste in women as I get older, why can't they?
This is why I prefer this forum over the PUA forums. It seems like people here in general are more well-adjusted than your average PUA guy. Or maybe it's just an age thing. I admit that I myself dove into PUA strategies when I was a shy, awkward high school teen. As I got older, I stopped doing any of the lines they suggested and started internalizing everything to fit my personality. The interaction with the opposite sex is about the vibe, the calibration, and the unraveling of each other's vulnerability.
From what I've seen of this community, Don Juans in general just have a great appreciation for for women; Unlike many members of the PUA community who as "alphas" because deep down, women terrify them.