And the chump of the year goes to....

[Night-hawk]

lol, nice one

 

[Married Buried]

Kids shouldn't be meeting a guy the mom is dating until AT LEAST 6 months into the relationship. These kids probably already have a string of men who've come into their lives as mom was getting pumped & dumped.

The woman has already messed up her 6 year old kid. I know for a fact the kid has met at least 10 of her boyfriends and unfortunately i met the kid too when I dated her. The kid will be a crack ***** without a doubt.

Here is the the latest update from chump of the year:

Looking for a house now waiting until **** gets out of school and hoping to find a house on edge of town, but really being patient to find a house momma likes lol.

He is now planning to buy the Woman and kids a house after a month of dating.

And before anyone wonders why I am looking up an ex on facebook it is for entertainment. I have a younger hotter woman with no kids so I have no other reason to be looking at my ex except for entertainment purposes.

 

[Night-hawk]

Thanks for sharing this entertainment!

This guy's Full House fantasy is coming true...just wait until the girls uncle jesse and Joey move in and all the wacky adventures they will have and all the nice, happy, sappy episodes they will share.

 

[Married Buried]

Thanks for sharing this entertainment!

This guy's Full House fantasy is coming true...just wait until the girls uncle jesse and Joey move in and all the wacky adventures they will have and all the nice, happy, sappy episodes they will share.

You are welcome. Now you see why I am checking the facebook and getting updates. I made a fake facebook and added them as friends and they both accepted.

Talk about weird.. adding people they don't know to facebook. And these are adults in their 30's.

I am going to keep posting updates from the chump.

 

[Night-hawk]

I'm not one to mock the misfortunes of others, but sometimes guy's are just so rediculous and need to be called on their ****. This guy does deserve a wake up call but do you really think Mr. Merry Sunshine wants that one bit...any information you give him at this point his mind will flush out like a toilet, leaving behind little lemon urinal puks to keep his fantasy fresh.

 

[Married Buried]

You know, when I was really OVER my HPD ex I hated her too much to check her facebook, not sure you are done bro even if you have better options. Could be wrong though but they do a lot of damage, hard to heal from.

Anyway, you should try to help this guy, not directly but just hint at information at stuff.

Trust me I am done. I am now happily married to a hot foreign latina for over a year. When I look at her facebook and look at the mess she calls life I know I have won because I got away from it.

Help the guy? I thought about it but he will have to learn the hard way.

 

[Married Buried]

Ha, you're "My Name Is Nobody". And it's your BPD-ex that you are looking up, isn't it? Man, they get under your skin.

basically....it's been awhile and I was motivated to make a thread when I saw this today.

 

[HBK]

Man some story, we all know guys like that sadily. Had a look on a miserable relationship website recently, and everybody on it apparently has GIGS (Grass is greener Syndrome) They just all talk about their Ex's going through this, fighting among themselves and are waiting for their Ex's to come back in the future so they can have the final laugh....Ohh its just emotional immaturity, she'll snap out of it. So sad its painful to read.

Whatever happened to just being a man, and not accepting anything less. Hands up, i have dated some idiots, and made mistakes. But I have never said "Hey I might as well just settle, don't want to be alone!"

On the other side though, I had a friend when I was younger, his married mother and father split when he was a kid. His father was physically abusive and used to beat the hell out of his mom in front of him and his brother. After they split, his mother hit the bottle hard. He spent many days with his brother at my house, while She drank, and tried to replace a father figure for the kids. I remember all the "Uncles" who used to give them toys, gameboys etc when they were kids. You know what happened. They guys grew up, moved far far away from home, and made great lives for themselves and are now happy. Their mother has been happily dating a guy for the last number of years, and their father committed suicide last year...

 

[AW1983]

Patsy of the year

Ahahahahahaha, no doubt.

1963: Lee Harvey Oswald.

2012: This guy.

My sister is always giving me sh1t like: "What if you met a woman who was perfect but had kids? You can't just discount a woman because of that."

Man! That is so crazy because somehow this came up when I was talking to my mom the other day and I told her no way would I ever raise someone's else spawn and she delivered the above quoted line almost word for word. And it's my MOM. The matrix is everywhere. :nervous:

 

[Down Low]

Kids shouldn't be meeting a guy the mom is dating until AT LEAST 6 months into the relationship. These kids probably already have a string of men who've come into their lives as mom was getting pumped & dumped.

Swear to God true: The b1tch in my sig started dating other guys very blatantly toward the end. They'd give both the b1tch and her kid T-shirts, take 'em out for food, etc. Strange items started showing up: hotel room keys, new costume jewelry, Costco photo envelopes with dozens of photos I'd never seen before with the b1tch and strangers (to me) at tourist sites, etc. Used rubbers started showing up on the floor. One day the kid is sucking on one like a lollipop. The b1tch stammered around for a minute, then lied and said maybe her aunt gave 'em to the kid. So who taught the kid to suck on it? Is the b1tch is being used by a pedo who is after the kid? Dunno. But one of her little kid friends' 10 year old brother came by around dinnertime begging. We sent him to play with the other kids in the kid's bedroom. The 10 year old immediately typed in a long and complicated URL to a porn site from memory, and started sh1tting in his pants over and over.

One day I go to pick up her kid at school, and the teacher said the kid wouldn't answer when asked what's her father's name. (I was the only man authorized to pick the kid up.) I got where I'd ask the kid if the other daddy visited last night, did mommy kiss him, and so on. Usually the kid would go scared and silent, but a couple of times blurted out an answer.

I wasn't the only daddy in the kid's life. And the b1tch sure wasn't protecting the kid from strange men.

Whatever you do, stay far away from women with kids. These b1tches are proven not wife material, and as far as I can tell, should never have become mothers in the first place.
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I am not her man. She can't stand the thought of me touching her. She's dripping with other men's semen. She is ashamed to be seen with me. She never misses an opportunity to disrespect me. Everything I do is wrong. I am the problem. She got what she wanted from me. She says "I hate you so much I could kill you." Going away forever will make her happy again. So I'm leaving her to her pumped-and-dumped lifestyle and leaving her bastard child fatherless. I'd be better off with no woman at all than wasting another second thinking about her. I learned from my mistakes and the next relationship will be done with planning for my happiness.

 

[zekko]

You can't just discount a woman because of that.

Right, because it's such a minor issue, right? It's like she had a tiny mole on her back or something.

LMAO I was just having the SAME conversation with my two married brothers. Same crap "Oh at your age you can't expect women not to have kids"

There are an awful lot of single mothers out there. Realistically, somebody's going to have to step up and play daddy for some of these girls, or they're going to have to do without.

I was fortunate to find a couple of women in their 30s who had never had children (my ex-wife and my current girlfriend). Go for the unfertile ones!

Obviously, the women in these two scenarios are completely faultless. They're hard working, great people who were simply screwed over by horrible men.

More likely, they divorced the fathers of their children because they were tired of them and wanted the child support. With some women, children are practically their livelihood. Get a couple of ex-husband/fathers to pay child support, add in welfare payments, tax deductions, and a new live-in father or boyfriend to pay the current bills, and they're all set.

if any of you are on any dating sites, I dare you to put something on your profile like "will date a single mom but will never marry a girl with kids by another guy." and sit back and read the emails you get.haha I've done it before and MAN the entertainment!

Lol, I bet.

He is now planning to buy the Woman and kids a house after a month of dating.

They really need a facepalm emoticon on here.

 

[samspade]

"What if you met a woman who was perfect but had kids? You can't just discount a woman because of that."
I'm sorry, but that would be settling for something I don't want to do.

Damn!!! Even my own sister is trying to shame me in to raising b@stards!

LOL. "What if you met the perfect woman but she had three heads and a penis?"

 

[Zarky]

The world needs suckers too. It benefits me personally to have that shmuck raising the kids rather than no dad at all. Less likely that 15 years from now they rob the liquor store I just happen to be buying a bottle of vodka in and shoot me in the process.

 

[Married Buried]

Here is todays facebook post from the chump. He really wants the world to know he is a chump.

why has my day off turned into moving boxes, breaking down furniture, and washing three loads of laundry, oh and cooking dinner for tonight. This family life thing is some work I feel for all the single moms and those parents getting it done in and outside of the house. Being a single man is a nightmare but cannot wait to see the kids and my lady's faces tonight when dinner is ready when they get home.
Cooking her favorite tonight, no baked chicken tonight baby LMAO

He is now her maid and her cook.

This guy is a personal trainer and he is built like a rock. He could do so much better. This is the saddest thing I have ever seen.

She replied to him on facebook. Here is what she said:

Thank you **** XO. It is hard and was very hard for me. I'm always in shock and awe at some things you do. Don't take it the wrong way babe... I'm just not use to someone helping. You've jumped right in and not only do I love it but I appreciate it!

I'm sure she appreciates having a beta at home while she sucks off the alpha behind his back.

 

[Nutz]

I'm sure she appreciates having a beta at home while she sucks off the alpha behind his back.

Reminds me of this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194164

3. A women needs two types of men in her life. Her lover and her provider.....her lover is the CAD personality type and her provider is the DAD personality type.

Pretty clear which one he is. And this got me thinking with my newest plate, I've got to be careful I don't lean to the side of the provider too much, that I've got to ramp things up physically.

 

[Night-hawk]

Think about how she responded...Can you sense it? It's as if she is justifying to herself how it's not all as lame as she really knows it is. And because it's facebook I'm sure she doesn't want other people to see how chumpy he is so she is appeasing his message but indirectly removing herself a bit from the guy's frame. I bet she will be responding a lot to this guy like this, where she takes his message but doesn't want him to totally feel she is falling into this ****. But she loves "the help", so, she might as well keep qualifying him.

 

[HBK]

Dear God.

 

[Married Buried]

Think about how she responded...Can you sense it? It's as if she is justifying to herself how it's not all as lame as she really knows it is. But she loves "the help", so, she might as well keep qualifying him.

Here is his response to her response:

no worries babe not complaining at all cuz I dont remember my dad having a day off ever with us or the household chores, just being unselfish for you and knowing how much I value everything with you and the babies. Really at peace with it all just give me a big hug and kiss when you get home and your debt is paid in full babe

 

[AW1983]

Here is his response to her response:

Ugh man. This went from entertaining to downright nauseating. I feel sorry for this sap, I really do.

 

[Burroughs]

A post like this really makes you realize where women get their entitlement princess mentalities from...men who are flat our desperate

if an in shape dude like the guy in malice's story is so desperate for a ready made family that he will readily play essential cuckold then average men are in for a long steady decline.

step your game up massively men or else buy the puzzy..cause women ain't changing anytime soon and they all talk amongst each other...puzzy is reaching astronomical prices and men seem incapable or unwilling to do what it takes to lower the costs