How's it going, folks?
I was interested in getting some feedback from you guys about a situation with a woman I'm trying to talk to at my gym. In one of my gym posts which some of you may have read, I mentioned that there is this lady who happens to have one of the longest, biggest butts at my gym whom so many guys hit on constantly and are desperately trying to have sex with. I was one of the first guys at my gym to make a move on her some time last fall and her response was, "let me just put this way. I'll see you around. I'm always here."
In the past few months, we often just smile and wave at each other, and once in a while, I would have a brief conversation with her. I hadn't talked to her in a while, until two weeks ago. She's often there on Saturday mornings. I motioned her with my finger to come to me when she was about to leave the gym on a Saturday morning two weeks ago, and since it had been a long time since we talked, I tried to use that to my advantage. Then I tried to see if I could get her to give me her number again. Her response this time was: "You'll get it...just not right now." She knew what I wanted.
The one thing I've noticed with her is she doesn't talk to any other guys at the gym, ignores most of those who try talking to her, or simply doesn't take them seriously. Two weeks ago, one guy actually pulled her arm while she was leaving the gym when he noticed her butt. She just laughed, ignored him and kept on walking. I've noticed that she tends to check me out more when I act as if I'm ignoring her and not giving her any attention. I did that two weeks ago, pretending as if I didn't notice she was around me, and for the first time, she said "hi" to me first. She didn't come to the gym last Saturday, but today, as usual, she was checking me out while I worked out. Given the fact that she told me I'll get her number, but not right now, I decided that I won't act as if I'm putting any pressure on her to give it to me or as if I'm desperate. My plan is to ignore her for at least a couple more weeks and then step up to her one Saturday and say: "I just couldn't wait much longer. I had to take a chance today. I've come to ask you for your number." At this point it's either gonna be hit or miss. If she doesn't give it to me during my third attempt, it's over. Yet at the same time, I worry about waiting too long to approach her and ask for it, because knowing the way many of these women tend to act when they get attention, she might give it to some other guy.
So today, I continued with my strategy of focusing solely on working out, pretending not to see or notice her, and not even using the machines in the same area where she was working out. I stayed focus and acted as if I actually wasn't in the very best of moods, and I could notice her checking me out in a tricky way from a distance. Before she left the gym today, I happened to be working out on a machine not too far away from her, while she was doing squats. I stayed focus and didn't walk up to her to start a conversation. We both knew that we were checking each other out; we knew what we were doing. Then before she left finally, as a typical woman who knows she has an unusually large ass would, she shook the thing really good while walking toward the locker room area. Her butt cheeks were clapping so hard in her black spandex pants that I myself had to pause for a minute from my workout and look at it.
So my question then is, am I pursuing the right strategy at the moment, and what should I do at this point to get her to give me her number given the circumstances I described above?
I was interested in getting some feedback from you guys about a situation with a woman I'm trying to talk to at my gym. In one of my gym posts which some of you may have read, I mentioned that there is this lady who happens to have one of the longest, biggest butts at my gym whom so many guys hit on constantly and are desperately trying to have sex with. I was one of the first guys at my gym to make a move on her some time last fall and her response was, "let me just put this way. I'll see you around. I'm always here."
In the past few months, we often just smile and wave at each other, and once in a while, I would have a brief conversation with her. I hadn't talked to her in a while, until two weeks ago. She's often there on Saturday mornings. I motioned her with my finger to come to me when she was about to leave the gym on a Saturday morning two weeks ago, and since it had been a long time since we talked, I tried to use that to my advantage. Then I tried to see if I could get her to give me her number again. Her response this time was: "You'll get it...just not right now." She knew what I wanted.
The one thing I've noticed with her is she doesn't talk to any other guys at the gym, ignores most of those who try talking to her, or simply doesn't take them seriously. Two weeks ago, one guy actually pulled her arm while she was leaving the gym when he noticed her butt. She just laughed, ignored him and kept on walking. I've noticed that she tends to check me out more when I act as if I'm ignoring her and not giving her any attention. I did that two weeks ago, pretending as if I didn't notice she was around me, and for the first time, she said "hi" to me first. She didn't come to the gym last Saturday, but today, as usual, she was checking me out while I worked out. Given the fact that she told me I'll get her number, but not right now, I decided that I won't act as if I'm putting any pressure on her to give it to me or as if I'm desperate. My plan is to ignore her for at least a couple more weeks and then step up to her one Saturday and say: "I just couldn't wait much longer. I had to take a chance today. I've come to ask you for your number." At this point it's either gonna be hit or miss. If she doesn't give it to me during my third attempt, it's over. Yet at the same time, I worry about waiting too long to approach her and ask for it, because knowing the way many of these women tend to act when they get attention, she might give it to some other guy.
So today, I continued with my strategy of focusing solely on working out, pretending not to see or notice her, and not even using the machines in the same area where she was working out. I stayed focus and acted as if I actually wasn't in the very best of moods, and I could notice her checking me out in a tricky way from a distance. Before she left the gym today, I happened to be working out on a machine not too far away from her, while she was doing squats. I stayed focus and didn't walk up to her to start a conversation. We both knew that we were checking each other out; we knew what we were doing. Then before she left finally, as a typical woman who knows she has an unusually large ass would, she shook the thing really good while walking toward the locker room area. Her butt cheeks were clapping so hard in her black spandex pants that I myself had to pause for a minute from my workout and look at it.
So my question then is, am I pursuing the right strategy at the moment, and what should I do at this point to get her to give me her number given the circumstances I described above?
