KneghtRyder
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help me clear this up...
According to Mystery method, after we pass the attraction phase and get the number and set up a first date, We are supposed to cut out the negs, ****y funny, teasing, and just try to establish as much comfort, because the game is won in the comfort....just spend 7 hours with her...and escalate is what MM says.
David deAngelo says that the 'worst thing you cando' on a first date is be boring and uncomfortable. I understand the uncomfortable. He says to continue the teasing, ****y funny, and that you should always keep her emotionallyspiking as much as possible. by teasing her, by being ****y funny, by talking about things that are passionate for her/you, and discuss memories that are really are emotional for her. Basically the first date is supposed to be like a emotional rollercoaster for her..
The logic is every joe asks the same boring questions, and you need to stand out.Attraction happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery... ****Y AND FUNNY... and saucy. Attraction is continued created when you show that you dont give a f**** what she thinks, but also very emotionally simulating? Why the heck are wel still concerned with attraction in the comfort phase?
So basically ,
whether do I still need to continue with the ****y funny
into the comfort phase? Since comfort is more important, is it just better to just focus on that as mucht?
A third take is to continue to keep / raise her attraction even in comfort by acting aloof like your dont give a shyt if she drops your or not, not concerned with trying to impress her, because you are alpha and you've got many options ? Basically just be really alpha and feel really confident, and that will maintain her attraction...It seems to me like a balancing act of trying to get attraction vs trying to build comfort at the same time.
According to Mystery method, after we pass the attraction phase and get the number and set up a first date, We are supposed to cut out the negs, ****y funny, teasing, and just try to establish as much comfort, because the game is won in the comfort....just spend 7 hours with her...and escalate is what MM says.
David deAngelo says that the 'worst thing you cando' on a first date is be boring and uncomfortable. I understand the uncomfortable. He says to continue the teasing, ****y funny, and that you should always keep her emotionallyspiking as much as possible. by teasing her, by being ****y funny, by talking about things that are passionate for her/you, and discuss memories that are really are emotional for her. Basically the first date is supposed to be like a emotional rollercoaster for her..
The logic is every joe asks the same boring questions, and you need to stand out.Attraction happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery... ****Y AND FUNNY... and saucy. Attraction is continued created when you show that you dont give a f**** what she thinks, but also very emotionally simulating? Why the heck are wel still concerned with attraction in the comfort phase?
So basically ,
whether do I still need to continue with the ****y funny
into the comfort phase? Since comfort is more important, is it just better to just focus on that as mucht?
A third take is to continue to keep / raise her attraction even in comfort by acting aloof like your dont give a shyt if she drops your or not, not concerned with trying to impress her, because you are alpha and you've got many options ? Basically just be really alpha and feel really confident, and that will maintain her attraction...It seems to me like a balancing act of trying to get attraction vs trying to build comfort at the same time.