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in both situations they are playing dumb. if a girl flakes on you when your suppose to go out with her, its only natural to be dissapointed, despite if you have back up plans. if you didnt care about going out with her then why set up the date in the first place? she will recognize you are...

lets say you see a girl, that flaked out on a date one time, at a club. she comes up and starts talking to you and you play it cool and kind of give the cold shoulder or say your trying to hook up with a girl when your alone with her and she declines your sexual advances and wants to...

i just became dumber trying to figure what the OP is trying to ask

good luck with the therapist djj. Id like to hear your progress and im rooting for you brother.

Dont mean to jump in on this thread, but i too put a lot of value in women..i feel like i am most happy when i have one. i do agree you cant be happy till you are happy alone, but i guess my question is what things can you do to help this process? live alone? go to movies by yourself? i may...

Synergy, we have a very similar story and we are the same age. Be strong brother, I'm rooting for you. I still need to get my things from her place too, howver I'm contemplating going thru her roommate to get my things rather than her. Still weighing my options.

THats funny, i would have described the same similarity with the bay area and southern cali. When i lived down south it seemed like girls would hit on you and they were 8's and 9's. Bay area, well, lets just say its like living in an alternate world.

DoItAgain, if i didnt know any better i would guess you live in the bay area. It is HORRIBLE here where its a FACT there is an 8 guy to 1 girl ratio. In addition to that it seems as though many girls, id estimate 2-1 ratio, are in relationships. That means there is essentially a 16 guy to 1...

that was the 2nd strike... i deleted her number last nite. Thank god im going to vegas in a week..i need a vacation from this slump.

just wanted to give an update... texted the girl with the kids this noon, "im going to the festival at 3pm. Bring some friends too." She didnt respond. obviously im going to next her, i am just very suprised at how the IL can drop sooooooo fast. Ive read threads on this site about how...

only one way to find out right????? once you have sex with a girl you will have your answer. My opinion is you will still feel the same. I think its on our nature to want to "spread our seed" as much as possible.

Ive heard pretty frequently around here when a girl is "hot then cold" with you, it typically means there is or might be another guy involved.. And to top it off, she is accusing you of cheating, which also might be a way of deferring her guilt onto you.. Either way the fact you are already...

Thats the thing that irks me.... Why does it have to be when she sticks around... in other words, why is it when the girl decides its ok? I remember the old stereotype was girls always pressuring guys to get into relationships and marriage. The guys is suppose to be scared of commitment and...

This is an interesting thread..id like to read more peoples view on this... also, how does one know when they are truley ready for a relationship?

im pretty sure something is up. either IL is low or shes just an AW. I decided to give her another opportunity (2 strike rule). I texted her, "Im going to the street festival tommorow during the day. you want to come with me?" she responds 6 hours later with "just wanted to ask what time...

Jophil, what if the chances of me seeing her out again are slim? How long would you suggest waiting till calling again?

Yeah. I figured her kids could make it legitimate.... I remember her saying she prefers to go out on weekdays bc her weekends she likes hanging out with girlfriends. Should I try to ask her out this weekend since she won't have her kids or wait another week and try again next thursday. I feel...

Met this girl who seemed to be extremly interested in me. She became friends with my buddys gf same day I met her. The next day they hung out this girl could not stop talking about me. We spoke couple days later but couldn't get a date bc I was going out of town. Following weeekend she couldn't...

just read your responses again and I think you misinterpreted the arguement in texts and me calling her out on "it". Both of those were in reference to that thread I input. She had been telling our mutual friend that she misses me and has been thinking about me. I was mad at that how she wasn't...

I always respect ur posts kailex but you are wrong in regards to spinning plates. I am spinning plates and I did have a girl over last night that I banged. Just because I am doing this it is not a magical recipe that will get me over a long relationship with a girl you loved. Your right I do...