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I've learned I have an issue giving up the fight. I really enjoy the challenge, and there's nothing like the challenge of a woman headed out the door. Currently there's a student I met at the college I work for: she's hot, young, fun, and seems really into me. Always holding hands and leaning...

Short story so far: confidence plummeting after break with ex, prompt me to improve my life. Still struggling with showing results and getting past her. 3 months after breakup, details later. I'd love a record of this so here goes... Visited a Mexican club tonight with a buddy who has...

I have a buddy who is a "nice guy". Think very skinny, intelligent, quiet, loner with a messy white guy fro. His passion is social psychology research, he is on his way to receiving a doctorate and will spend most of his days inside, not moving, at a desk somewhere. One school of thought...

From MOTU back in 2010. Let's try it! No rules here gents, you know what a rejection is, and you know what isn't. It never happened in 2010, so let's do it now! March 27th is a Friday. Hope to hear all your stories, you'll hear mine as well.

Got a text from the ex asking for a necklace she left at my house. She spent one night over before the breakup and took most of her things trying to ninja out. She wants me to give it to her friend I work with. Part of me wants to say, "FU, I gave it to goodwill." After a sustained period of...

Had a good thing with a younger gal for a year. Highs and lows like any relationship but pretty great overall. After a couple days acting weird I see the writing on the wall. "We need to break up." "Ok, bye." "Don't you wanna talk?" "Not really. What is there to talk about? You've made...

Plate spend last couple days going out with an old female friend and has a sore throat. Still open to doing something, but something "low key." Option1: "Another time, get better" Option 2: Drop off soup and tea. "Get better, see you later" Option 3: "Sure, let's still do something." I...

Nearly 5 months ago I made a decision that impacted my life more than anything I have done before. Frustrated with my work, relationship, and personal development I took a risk for a life in a new state, a new job, and a new girl. I was so excited for the life I could imagine unfolding before...

My ex is deliberately trying to f*ck with me, and honestly I'm more disappointed than anything else. We were together for 3 years and for the vast majority things were great, but there were a few issues we were never able to get past, and a few things I wanted but never got from her. When we...

I've heard a great deal of stories where women in a LTR leave their BF for a DJ, and in a few weeks or months are back with the old BF. I've seen it countless times first hand where a guy was living a near flawless DJ lifestyle, and in a short time the girl is back with her ex. Rare is the story...

Met this girl at work and from the get go we had a flirty thing going on. I had a girlfriend and she had this AFC clinger she called her "best friend" so nothing happened. Time passes and she plans to move near AFC and try dating him. My job was ending, and I began contemplating a move...

Time to admit I made a mistake. Valentine's Day is here, and I didn't do anything for my gf. Of course I had excuses: unusually busy week at work, I loathe the holiday, we had talked about delaying it until after a big report due tomorrow, etc... Some of you will say I'm justified for...

I can't understand why so many guys on here are having woman issues. I see so many guys here and in the world talk a big game of having good jobs, money, bulging muscles, interesting lives, sleek cars, and 10 pound c*cks, and I can't help but wonder why the hell you are having women problems...

I have decided to challenge myself to 30 days without watching television, movies, or porn. I am tired of wasting my life. My time on earth is short, and I am always striving to make the best of it. I do enjoy these things and they could be used healthily, but too often I find a 30 minute show...

Anybody seen this virgin show on TLC? These people should all be mercy killed. There is one woman who called herself a "reclaimed virgin." WTF is that? Apparently she has had sex... With each of her boyfriends... All 7 of them. I'm sorry sweetie there is nothing virgin about that...

I am getting so tired of the GF bringing up past escapades. I know she had her fun like I did, but I have told her repeatedly: I don't bring up my past, I don't want to hear about hers. I have no illusions of her as a pure maiden or anything else, but some things I've learned are difficult to...

Lately I've been thinking about what I want from my life, and one aspect of that is to be bigger, healthier, stronger, etc. Naturally I am a skinny oaf (160lbs @ 6'3"), but in the past, with a dedicated gym regimen, I can bulk up. I'd like to give it a go. For the past couple weeks I've been...

Hey gents, I've been living what most guys think is the dream for the last few years. I live in a beautiful city filled with many beautiful and single women. My would-be male competition are mostly gay, douche bags, or just plain beta (or worse). I've damn near perfected the meeting, dating...

My current GF has been nagging me for months to buy her some flowers. I hate buyiung flowers. I know girls like them but the act seems so stupid and meaningless to me after so many guys bring them on first dates and give them to girls who couldn't be less interested. Rather than being a...

Been dating a great girl now for one year. Met her during probably the greatest year of my life on the prowl. I was working out regularly, had just gotten over an ex who, turns out, wasn't nearly as great as I thought she was, and for the first time in my life I realized how valuable of a...