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    5 Principles to the Don Juan Mindset - S.P.E.A.K

    Once again, I am back and I have seen so much and accomplished so much since my last bump. I am going through another round of self improvement and I felt like digging this thing up again as it's still highly relevant. Good luck to everyone out there. Keep at it and one day all of this will be...
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    Speak Easy - A DJ's Self Improvement Journal... 9 Years later

    Responses To Messages: Re ExoticOne: I I'm glad I could inspire you ExoticOne. It's good that you have identified positive qualities, like being buff, in addition to highlighting some areas you want to improve on. It's more helpful to focus on your improvements than on your mistakes. When you...
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    Freedom and Principles are more important than anything

    Haha, it can definitely be one of the unpleasant things of life at first before you practice it a little. It also can be a lot of fun if you do it right. I completely understand the name calling thing and being ostracized for not being in the cult. As I mentioned, I've been living in the most...
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    Freedom and Principles are more important than anything

    I think taiyuu nailed it here. I think that having principles and sticking to them is incredibly noble, and extremely admirable. I respect that you have developed yours and I hope that you never let them bend unless your mind has been changed. If it has, then stick to your new principles with...
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    Speak Easy - A DJ's Self Improvement Journal... 9 Years later

    Week 1 Recap Re: BeExcellent. Thanks for the advice BeExcellent. I'm in a transitory phase right now as there big life decisions coming my way and I will probably have to move again in September. I've been avoiding taking on volunteer commitments because of that, but perhaps I should...
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    Reconnecting with Ex

    Thanks dust muffin. It comes from a place of experience. All of this is a learning process and sometimes in the moment we 'know' what we should do, but still do something different. It's sometimes necessary to make the mistake, feel the consequences of it, and then vow to never let it happen...
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    Speak Easy - A DJ's Self Improvement Journal... 9 Years later

    I'm not entirely certain what the goal of this post is, but I do know that it is my first post in close to 8 years on this site. This site truly changed my life when I found it in Grade 10. I'm since well and graduated from University now and sometimes I will run into people that could have been...
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    Reconnecting with Ex

    Hi Thomas, You need to keep one key thing in mind when making this decision: what would a true Don Juan do? A true Don Juan is awesome, ambitious, and way above petty vendettas with exes. A true Don Juan looks at his ex and says, "Yup, I made some mistakes in that relationship and I won't make...
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    guy trying to pick up ur gf

    Play it cool. I disagree with everyone saying to knock the guy down by calling him nice or casually making fun of his shirt or something. Just relax and watch the show. Pretend it is your girl's brother who saw her out in public and had to say hi. A chump will get protective and a girl can...
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    5 Principles to the Don Juan Mindset - S.P.E.A.K

    Down times are hard, and there is no question about that. However, I think the biggest mental block young DJ's (and old) need to overcome is that down time isn't a bad thing; it certainly does not reflect on how you are coming along as a DJ. What does this mean? When you first start out you...
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    5 Principles to the Don Juan Mindset - S.P.E.A.K

    bump. I have come VERY far in the years since posting this, and it still holds true. In job interviews, meeting bosses, talking to girls, and just getting the best out of life. I had to re-share it
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    More to life than sosuave.

    I have been an avid reader of this forum for over a year now. I admit that it has changed my life and I am forever grateful for the start it gave me on my path. I have become obsessed with all of this stuff and have become very outcome dependant. When I first started I was just focussing on...
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    The blueprint de-coded discussion thread

    yes please I would really like to know how to find this thing.
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    asking a girl to have sex for money

    get the hell out of here and I hope no one else responds to this fvcking idiot.
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    NorwegianDJ's journal of personal growth

    sounds a lot similar to my sosuave story! Idk if you read it but its in my field report thread,
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    Dating a best friend's EX?

    BPH it sounds like you are non-receptive to the advice you have received to stay away from any girl that your best friend has dated. Who cares about any updates? If he is your best friend then don't go after his girlfriend, stop acting like a girl and more like a man with values. If you don't...
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    Dating a best friend's EX?

    okay first of all... who the hell is Sam? You have to give us some more information if we are to help you out bro. All I can say from what little I know is if that is how your best friend treats you... then you should probably change your standards in friends. Surround yourself with...
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    Dating a best friend's EX?

    Dude hell no don't do it.EVEN IF your friend says he's cool with it, he probably isn't he just doesn't want to seem like a douche. What is more important to you? Your best friend or some dumb girl? There are millions of girls but best friends are hard to find.
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    how could i have played this better?

    Dont let it bother you, girls will look for excuses to stir up their emotions. If you don't let it bother you and talk to the housemate and all of her friends like it never happened, she will soon forget about it. You set the frame, if u feel all awkward and uncomfortable when you are talking...
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    Being a Gentleman

    BINGO
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