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Ref: Do women only love you for what you can do for them? I totally get the cave person youth, provisioning dynamic, but so what. We are not just base animals, we should by now have a sense of right and wrong. Most of us don’t go around clubbing people to death because we don’t like them...

The more I come to understand women the less I like many of them. Part of this has to do with the concept of love, if that concept even exists between a man and a woman. In my life I have had no shortage of women tell me they love me, “I love you” over and over I hear. I’ve become cynical...

Anyone who has read my posts over the years knows I’ve seen the ups and downs of LTRs, and not with low class girls, these girls are all doctors, last three anyway. But strangely despite their positions they do not have much money saved. My problem is that after going through the divorce from...

OK Guys I need help. Have not posted here for about 3 years as all was fantastic with a beautiful, Phd, piano playing girl 17 years younger, I’m 49. Long story short – she lived a long distance away we flew back and forth for two years, she came over to live with me for a year. I have two...

Recently I’ve had three girls directly ask me to come back to their place for the night, all of whom I have said no to. I got to thinking about how being “gamed” on the other side highlights clearly some reflections of game: Nervousness is obvious, and not at all attractive; Posture, not...

Rationalmale Rollo, I just wanted to say I have been over to rationalmale and I think the information you have written is excellent and spot on. They should teach this stuff to boys at school, well ok university, school could be a bit early. Basically, game just balances the scales where...

Well I just got back from a drink and extended chat with a pretty girl (smokes so not really interested). Here is yet another girl who just wants to stay home and be looked after. Many women I meet these days seem to be rejecting the whole feminist, “I don’t need a man to make me happy, I just...

In the end all that there is to seduction is...go after what you want. The basis of every success I have had is that I simply went after what I wanted until I got it. The basis of every failure I have had is that I either did not try, or did not keep trying in differing ways. The AFC...

I have this friend...no it’s not me, I really do. He is a very good looking, successful guy, but he has no confidence. Yet he sleeps with lots of women. So much for the confidence link, actually no. The women he sleeps with are, well, to put it mildly, not very attractive. In fact I do not...

I would be grateful if one of the guys who has worked this out could advise me. I have had this amazingly, passionate, sexual love affair with this girl for a year. We find each other very attractive, she is very pretty 38 (looks much younger), skinny, professional does everything I ask of her...

I have a mate who is a fantastic trader. Over the years I have watched him to try and determine what makes him so good. In the end there were two clear factors in my view: 1) The first was the ability to take pain. He could lose, lose, lose and then come back and still make the next trade. He...

Squirrels wrote in another thread - "The more mature men get, they either accept that women aren't worth as much as less-mature men make them out to be and start playing the game like they have "nothing to lose", or they wallow in desperation and depression." Squirrels, exactly. The great...

Trying to be faithful doesn’t seem natural to them.” They recite the wedding vow in much the same spirit as they wear “something borrowed, something blue”—it is simply what one does at a wedding. Of course, a vow is no very serious undertaking to one who assumes she will never feel any...

1. Her problems become your problems. 2. People change. 3. In love you fail to see poor character traits. 4. You get more sex when you are not married. 5. Hell hath no fury like a women scorned. 6. Life will throw things at you that you never imagined, and so may she. 7. She will put the...

OK guys any suggestions from those that have been psyched out by a Borderline in a LTR in the past and how to come back from this? I’ve been hunting around for a new girl with LTR potential. About a month ago I met an attractive girl about 10 years younger, surprisingly innocent, and fun...

I hope this gives those who never had to fight to get into the bathroom when growing up some insights. Growing up with a few sisters gives you an “inside view” on female psychology. Here are some actual examples of contradictory behaviours women can carry out when they like a guy: She splits...

OK DJs, I actually get a lot of IOIs, licking lips, looking into my eyes, smiling, but there is a problem…the determination of gold from fool’s gold. So my question: What is the quickest and most effective way to determine if you are getting an IOI from an AW, or a genuine IOI with...

From a deep seated fear that we are not lovable, desirable or attractive? From a desire not to have this “proved” to us? When did it start? Before you can remember? Being left alone in the kindergarten playground? With the first girl that said no? If the first girl had said yes would it be all...

Of all the naturals I have known in my life they all seemed to have one basic trait in common: they really did not care about the girl and thus they were aggressive, acted, and were primarily unconcerned by the outcome. Isn’t that maximum alpha? Why would an alpha care? Uncaring is a...

I was wondering if someone with a lot more skills as a DJ can help me out here with something I just can’t understand. I have been told I am good looking and look young for my age. Frequently when I am in a book store or waiting at the lights to cross the road a very good looking girl will walk...