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    Situation with Plate Spinning and Social Circle

    Hey guys, got a bit of a conundrum resulting from a stupid oversight on my part while spinning plates. Amateur mistake, because I thought with the wrong head. Been dating Plate A for 8 months. I find her cute, really like her personality, but not super attracted to her body. 125 pounds at 5ft...
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    She will have sex but won't kiss me...

    Hey all, could use some perspective on this situation. Known a girl for four years, she's a game player for sure. Last night she came home with me from her birthday celebration and started acting cold, wouldn't kiss or make out with me. So I turned away from her, then later in the night she...
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    Not a fan of BJs and handjobs- is this normal?

    Hey guys, as far as I can tell from talking with my friends and what I read on here, I'm the only guy on earth who doesn't really care for BJs. I have not gotten off even once with a BJ, but every girl that has given me one has gotten pretty frustrated because I go from hard to soft pretty...
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    How to put her past out of your mind?

    Hi all, I know there have been threads in the past on what's acceptable in a woman's past and what's not, but wanted to throw this one out there. Been dating a girl for about 5 months now, and she's great (HB 8, 29 years old). The one thing that bugs me is that she has had more experience then...
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    I'm a player?

    Hey all, so I met a girl speed dating yesterday, and she is new to this area. Now during our three minutes I was pretty aggressive with the ****y funny and asked for her number on the spot. She was a bit surprised, then she asked me if I was a player. I was not expecting that, and my time was...
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    Interest level too low?

    Hey fellas, this is a pretty newbie question that I would normally not ask. But I feel the circumstances are different because this girl is 21 years old which is the youngest I've ever gone out with. I'm 27. So we went out last night to a lounge. We were together for 5 hours, and I was kino-ing...
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    How to proceed after a ONS?

    Hey fellas, so my -ex finally broke up with me. Bummed about it, then found a new girl in a club (22 years old) and managed to bring her back to my place for a one night stand. Felt pretty good about it. We even talked later over coffee and it seems like we have some real chemistry! Only problem...
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    How to deal with girlfriend's past

    So I need some major advice. Some brief background: so the girl I'm am dating who is 5 year older than me, has a good deal more dating experience. She's had several relationships that lasted a few years. Unfortunately, she is my first girlfriend and I was a virgin prior to being with her. We've...
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    How to rekindle the intimacy

    So when my gf and I first started dating, we had ridiculous porn star sex. 5 times in one night, all sorts of positions. Now for some reason, about 5 months later, I can only have sex once, and then I go limp. And I can usually only do missionary. When I try from behind, I again go limp. I'm a...
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    GF dreamt of cheating on me!

    So my LTR just told me this morning that she had a really bad dream. I asked what it was, and she told me I wouldn't want to hear it. I pressed, and she told me that she had a dream she was working at a new company and still with me but sleeping with a new coworker. Some relevant facts: she...
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    How to proceed with girl 4 hours away

    Have a question on how to proceed. I met a girl (25 years old) at a club this past Saturday who was visiting from a city about 4 hours away from where I live. We have some common friends. So we danced/grinded for about 2 hours, and barely exchanged words. I tried asking her a few questions, but...
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