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  1. M

    I attract crazies

    You know the type. Genuinely attractive girls, 7-9's. Always total nymphos. But with lots of baggage or some other emotional defect. I don't seek the type, they just seem to naturally gravitate towards me. Bipolar girls and ones with daddy issues especially. The problem is that out of ten...
  2. M

    R.I.P. Nate Dogg

    I don't know if I'm the only one, but this tore me up. I was a huge Nate Dogg fan, Regulate was definitely one of my top five favorite songs of all time. He was only 41. He had a history of strokes, beginning in his thirties. You would think though that for the money he had, his doctors would...
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    So where have I been at the last year and a half?

    It has been a long, strange journey. I wound up moving in with the girl I was dating, and she had nearly tricked me in to marriage before I came to my senses. I've learned a lot though when it comes to maintaining control and interest over the long term. - Becoming a viable person to hook...
  4. M

    How to find the right balance in an LTR

    Ok, I have no problem getting dates, sex etc. Generally, I'll hook up with a girl a few times, get bored, make something up, and move on to my next conquest. Spinning multiple plates at a time isn't an issue for me. All around, I'd describe myself as confident, attractive, fun to be around, and...
  5. M

    Bootcamp for virgins?

    You know all of those workshops that self-help gurus and motivational speakers have for people? Anything from staying off drugs to managing a business to asserting yourself has been done. They even do Djing workshops. Has anybody ever thought of opening a "boot-camp" for virgins? Like have...
  6. M

    A new paradigm

    I'm fairly successful with the ladies. I can get numbers and dates just fine. I get a healthy amount of sexual activity. Still, I always strive to be better at the craft. So, whenever anybody claims to have any sort of advice for being a more successful DJ, I lend my ear and listen to them...
  7. M

    From no sex, LJBF -> PLEASE **** ME NOW!

    Maybe some women really do enjoy a spot of COMPLETE JERK now and then So things sort of turn sour with a plate I was spinning (I was getting a little soft on her her), and we begin seeing eachother less (went from 3x a week to 1x/week), and not having sex. She then accuses me of only being...
  8. M

    How to raise an interest level? IGNORE HER!

    Of course, this only works if you already know the woman and see her pretty regularly. I was spinning this one plate, and I started to notice that she would be late for our get togethers or would have plans come up on her. Not just like once, but a few times over three weeks. It started to...
  9. M

    Beard or no beard?

    I've heard a lot of mixed responses from both the ladies and other dudes on what they think about beards. Some women say it makes the man look scraggly Some women say it makes the man look rugged and sexy Some women say it really depends on the guy, and that some men can pull it off, and...
  10. M

    Holy ****

    Yeah so this chick I've been hooking up with calls me today. Shes on birth control so we didn't worry about a condom. Anyway she tells me out of nowhere she is bleeding and that it's not supposed to be happening. I didn't *** in her, and in fact, I had such a case of whiskey **** that I couldn't...
  11. M

    The Importance of Status & Ambition

    I'm by no means some sort of guru. I do fine picking up the ladies, but James Bond I am not. Like everybody else here, I am trying to improve every day and eventually perfect my mackin' skills. Something I noticed though, is a lot of guys say they approaching with confidence and are still not...
  12. M

    Average Frustrated Pick-Up Artist

    The short story is this: I have no problems picking up girls, no problems getting them in the sack with me, and most end up just wanting a no strings attached friends-with-benefits type relationship. I know, I know, I'm at least getting laid, which is more than some people are doing, so why...
  13. M

    The boys from Illinois?

    Anyone from the central Illinois area? Around Champaign-Decatur-Springfield? Just looking for fellow DJ's in the urban section of the cornfield.
  14. M

    A truly tricky situation (I need a ******** translator)

    Well heres a story (sorry it's a bit long): Theres this girl who was actually dating my brother first, but they had a falling out and he left town for a while. Me and this girl hooked up, and at first it was awkward and we didn't really know what to do next. We understood that it would make a...
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