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I remember two girls in my social circle. One day one of my buddys had a bad mood, didn't respond the same way he always did. So I joked about it, "maybe he got a girlfriend and doesn't have time anymore". You should have seen the girls. They were laughing tears. That is how impossible it was...

I find it very funny and it definitely not too hard or anything. The only thing wrong with it, is that textgame just sucks, precisely because of her ability to not reply and to leave you wondering. If you continue using textgame you should stop caring at all, to what she answers, else it...

It might sound a bit hard, but there is no use in being friendly instead of honest. There is a quote I really like and it goes like this: "Don't bother with Ljbf, it never works, if a women isn't willing to get naked for you ... next". That sums it up pretty decent. You are an Afc and you...

The things this guy said in 2003 are confirmed in this article from february 2010, which is a really profound fair article worth reading. http://www.weeklystandard.com/articles/new-dating-game

Thank you pook, you truly made me wake up and saved my life. The day I read this was the day I was reborn, I will forever be grateful for it.

Having read the whole thread, I feel the need to add a few things that I think are still missing. The subject which is not covered at all here is the difference between love and oneitis. Some people tend to think that if they got their "missed opportunity" or Ljbf Oneitis, then it would end...

Your answer was perfect. You said you were interested. You didn't mess it up. Now she knows that she has to try hard to get you. She probably will call you soon and ask you to spend time with her. If you had said that you love her, you would already have lost her.

She gave you a sh1t test and you failed - It is over. And this was 3 weeks ago? You had no contact until then? Forget her. Pls do not write her a letter or anything else. If she does not want you, it is her own fault that she misses the great opportunity to be with you. There was one small...

I thought about that a lot. And by the time I really didn't know. But I guess, I just didn't care. If she had been hot, I might have gotten the clue, at least I hope so.^^

Oh man, there was this girl. She was almost eating me. All the time she was talking to me, following me around, asking me hundred times a day, If i wanted to go on a date with her, skiing with her, dancing with her, and every other sport you can imagine. I got no clue, I wasn't into her either...

Ok I was 19 I think. This girl was hitting hard on me the first day. She was always near me, asking me stuff, telling me how nice it is talking to me whatever. First I didn't notice that at all. First I didn't think any girl would ever be attracted to me (how should they when I sat before my PC...

Do NEVER show her too much affection. You are the prize to be won. The girl can be really lucky, if she got the chance to hang out and probably come together with you. Neg her, and make it up with an honest compliment. Every time you pull her, push her away. She should never be to sure about...

That's a shame, I really would have loved to read your long answer, every advice I get is a step forward. Y I read all that stuff. But as I said, i don't think it is the question how you view this whole thing as far as being ready is concerned. When I finally have my own place, I will start...

She goes out with someone else? What is the problem? Are you in love with her? Oneism? Go out with that other girl, when you have the opportunity. Use your new mindset, get the girl, forget about the other one. Good luck.

I think the hardest part, is convincing myself that it is completely over. This thing went on way to long and I know that, but I have to really understand that I will never be with her and that there is no point in being friends with her and that there is nothing I could do, to change that in a...

I was always talking to chicks. They wanted me their whole life to be their "friend". I am sick of it. I had more female friends than male. Oh god, I hate my old AFC self and I hate everything that is left of it. So you are saying, I should concentrate on the recovery process and just cut her...

Hm hate doesn't help either? Great. This thing sucks! Good, when you master Dj are there tell me what I should do. I know this whole stuff, about getting the life I want, concentrating on it, focusing on hobbys, going to the gym, reading more material, going out, meeting new people... I try all...

Ok fvck what I said earlier. I won't bow before her! I won't kneel and make her a ****ing goddess. This damn b1tch doesn't deserve that at all. I cut her out of my life. I fvcking hate her. At best, I seduce her and dump her, once I ****ed her! This will be my mantra, to never bow again before...

Thank you, that really helps me a lot. I know it is wrong and goes against everything taught on the site, but i just can't get over her. I tried ignoring her for 10 weeks and still kept thinking about her. I really hate what i got to do. Not that i couldn't do it, but i really do not want...

Ok here is the deal. I think most of you were probably AFCs (as i was too) and suffered from oneism and that girl you suffered from, probably got you to that site. My AFC time is not that long ago, i just realized this whole stuff a few months ago. And I am still kind of friends with my Oneism...