Ok now your starting to piss me off, and that is not a good thing by the way. You need to get out of your head. If you don't capitalize on this situation then you will never forgive yourself. Rejection or not this is a defining moment in your life right now. This is when you start a pattern in...
"Hey so listen I was thinking about the other day, and I decided Im going to make it up to you, me and you are going to (whatever you want to do with her but dont say sex, that part will happen later, make it something the two of you will do together)."
then be like
"make sure you dress...
Definately go out alone. I do this all the time and usually I run into someone I know anyway.
My advice is to roll up to the club and start talking to whoever you see first. Definately talk to some dudes and talk about chicks and stuff. You can usually end up getting a dude as a semi-wing if...
I was going to give some advice, but your post irritated me so much that I decided not to. So fu-ck you ass_hole. :D
No but seriously though dude:
Your locked in the friend zone and your not doing anything to wiggle out of it, your like castrated at the balls.
Focusing on everything that is wrong with you just leads to more things that are wrong with you.
When you go out into the field you will hit sticking points. When you hit a sticking point enough times you start to look at why you might be hitting that sticking point. If you go to a forum with...
Noobs and those that are confused I want you all to take note as I am going to make an example of this thread right now. I have paid close attention to this thread and there are a few things that I have noticed.
1) This thread is very popular and posters are coming out of the woodwork to...
This pretty much nails it. Elstud your realization is indeed important. You must be "indifferent" to whether or not you have sex with a given woman to have more sex with women. Ironic isn't it? Being in the moment with women, having fun with women -- these are very important as well. That's when...
Go up to them and be like:
"Just so you know right now, (pause for suspence) Im just another one of those horny guys at the club, but since I don't know you yet Im going to have to settle on talking to you first, are you ready?"
Then go interview style on them.
Sooooo ... Whats your...
I apoligize, I didn't realize that we were in some sort of debate. I think I've made my views pretty clear so feel free to keep the debate going without me. Cheers. :up:
Right.
Perhaps an example will help as this is a very important concept.
Guy A dresses up to go to the bar, he throws on his shades and his best outfit. He works out and cleans his house. He takes some actions to get ahead in the world today for a better tomorrow. As he heads out the door...
mmmm yummy sounding.
Well sure when you put it that way, and there's nothing wrong about that.
Of course the problem is that you can ALWAYS find reasons why your NOT the prize if that's what you want to focus on. You can ALWAYS find an excuse, something you don't have or that your not in...
You know -- my experience in life actually leads me to agree with this advice wholeheartedly. The guesses to what a woman is thinking and making her seem that evil is a bit much, I dont really think it's some kind of conscious vendetta because women are torturous byaches but the actual advice is...
Dimitri used to be a part of charisma arts but brached off to start his own business for pickup. Recently a woman posted some voicemails that he left her. The voicemails were very arrogant, egotistical, and bordering psychotic.
The origional poster in this thread mistook Dimitri for trying to...
I think the origional poster is quite confused.
Being the prize is VERY MUCH a state of mind and a frame. The only problem is that if you don't BELIEVE it YOURSELF and have decided that you need to be all these things in order to believe that your the prize. That's cool too. Whatever floats...
No. You open another set immediately or within 10 seconds if there isn't one immediately around. No excuses. No wussy bullcrap. No thinking. No analyzing. Nervous or not. Craping your pants with runs coming down your pants -- or not. I once got blown out due to a bleeding hand. I immediately...
I got 3 things to add to this:
1) The more you talk to women, the quicker you will reach the indifference thresh-hold and then you wont care what happens anymore.
2) As soon as you get blown out or rejected make it a POINT to open another set within 10 seconds. This is how you will...
Go out more too man. If your getting that affected by one interaction then your not talking to girls enough. At some point you will hit an indifference thresh-hold.
I'd say something like:
I could tell you ... but then Id have to kill you.
or
I feel for you and me to go get some icecream (or whatever the hell you want to do)
or
you could go the more playful route with this and be like:
I feel like taking you for a ride on my magic carpet...
I'm sure ALL of you do not hate women. It's just a trend I notice and this forum is certainly not the only one guilty of it. It's ok man, I love you all JUST the way you are.
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