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In a little under a week, I'm headed off to Amherst College to begin my "higher education." It's a couple thousand miles from where I live now,and it'll be a totally new start. I want to capitalize on it. Any advice/books to read? I'm downloading Carnegie's "Make Friends and Influence People"...

Hey guys. I haven't been around in a little while, and I've been doing all right, but I need some outside input on a situation at work (McDonald's). It's a pretty standard HB showing high interest, and I've been wanting to ask her out, but I don't want to **** up my work situation. Here's...

So, I wound up going to prom last night with a wonderful girl who is, unfortunately, the gf of a guy I know (I had asked her to prom before he asked her out, but then he didn't want to go to prom, so we went anyway). We had a great time---I had her laughing and kinoing me a lot, although we...

Hey guys...I have a question about how to handle the good ol' "I'm not interested in a relationship right now" line...Pook et al. say it's just an interesting variant on "No," but I wanted to see what y'all thought about this situation. BACKGROUND: I had a thing on this girl in 8th grade, and...

Tomorrow night, I am looking forward to a nice date w/ a lovely girl, and I'm raring to get back in the game. However, there is one thing slightly dogging me. Namely, she is going to prom (in what appears to be a romantic context as opposed to a "friends" context) w/ some other guy (I don't know...

I used this frame today for a few minutes---it's one I use when I get depressed w/ my social status (which I don't anymore)---but I think it's a useful one to keep perspective. So, let's say that you feel like crap because your oneitis won't give you time of day/none of the "cool" kids like...

This is a bit in reference to an earlier post I made... in the interim before prom, my date (whom I only knew marginally well), started going out w/ another guy and told me, so I offered to break it off and let her go w/ the other guy (we're both seniors, she's a soph, so we're the only way...

I've been lurking on sosuave for about a month and reading the DJ Bible religiously. I've snapped out of my AFC/Nice Guy mindset, but I still have a bit of a prob. Background: I'm an HS senior with limited (one GF, but we dated for 9 mos) experience, though I got the nerve to ask a seriously...