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Never thought it would come to this haha. Working night shift with only weeknights off every week is just killing my social life in general. I have no idea how to do internet dating, especially being a little older. Any tips?

For background, I sucked in high school with girls. It did real well in college and the year after. Right now I'm in the best shape of my life 5'11, 190 11% body fat. I'm a cop, which was my dream. Making good money and benefits. I'm 27. Problem now is I'm working midnights with wednesday and...

I recently got a job where I work overnights (8pm-6am). I have off Tues, Wed and Thursday every week. On my days off I do the same sleep schedule so usually wake up at 4pm and go to the gym. Problem is - how do I meet girls working these hours? The few times I've seen girls at the bars they...

Ive been on this forum a while. I've improved a lot. Making a lot of money. Fun job. Muscular. Lots of friends. But still, have no interest from women. Maybe I'm not the best looking guy, but lots of guys worse then me are getting some. Body language and everything is good. Friend's girls like...

I met her about six months ago, but I had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend at the time. There was an obvious attraction there though. Now we're both single. I've seen her a few times in the last month. However, if I don't text her, we don't speak at all. I text her once every two or three...

We out with some friends a few weeks ago. Anyways, one of them brings a friend thats a chick (theyre just friends). I've met her briefly in the past. We get to talking. She's touching my leg with her hand, making strong eye contact with me. I started texting this other girl in front of her and...

I used to be depressed, no women, ect. I turned everything around 3 years ago. I had a hot girlfriend for 2 years, I have a high paying great job, quit drinking, got real muscular, ect. Broke up with the girlfriend in August. Got with another girl immediely, but lost interest in her in...

I often see "red flags" that say a girl is a pump and dump is not a keeper. Please post things/behaviors you feel are signs and discuss whether you agree or disagree with these signs. 1) Girl has a lot of male friends I believe this to be a bad sign. Usually they are insecure and/or an...

I'm single for the first time since college. In college getting girls was easy. introduce myself, talk about class, ect. Now, though, I don't know what to do. For example, there is a smoking hot girl at my gym. I always say 'hi", hows your day, ect, but that just seems like fluff conversation...

I answer: Hello? Hey honey. It's my girlfriend of a year that I've been thinking of breaking up with. Her: I changed my number. Me: Ok. Her: I've realized I can't be with you right now. You're too controlling. (Insert: She's bad about flirting with other guys, I've called her...

My friend is in a bad situation (for real, it's not me). He is 30, but he usually comes to me for advice but I'm not sure what to do in this situation. Anyways, he has been with this girl for two years. She's pretty cool, doesn't go out often at all and is pretty funny. They love each other...

Is this acceptable? She's still doing me, so I guess it shouldn't be a big deal, but I don't know if these are just jokes or what. And no I am not secure in that area.

Hey guys. I'm a "new" mature man (25) and have two questions: 1) Do you feel sex is worth it? I'm not bragging, but I could have sex every day if I wanted. I have a HB 9 girlfriend. We had a pregnancy scare five months ago and have had sex twice since. This is MY choosing. I'm not ready for...

Been going out with this girl for a year now. It's been good. The other day she tells me she wants to get a tattoo on her back. Now, I hate tattoos. Nothing big, just they look trashy to me. She knows this, from way before she decided to get one. She did want to get one about five months ago and...

How do you handle this situation- Your girlfriend of about five months flirts with another guy in front of you. You tell her about it afterwards and she says "That wasn't flirting". It clearly was flirting, however. How do you walk the line between jealous and having self-respect in this situation?

I work with my girl (amanda). A new girl started there a month ago(hallie). Hallie became tight with Amanda. Hallie has a boyfriend of five years, but she tells my girlfriend that she wants to experience other guys in bed because she has only been with her boyfriend. Anyways, Hallie has been...

I've been dating a girl I really like. We want the same things, really get along, ect. Only problem is she is pretty stupid. Especially socially. And her stupidity has caused a few problems for me as well. So how much do I put up with before I leave? Everything else is great, but I don't want to...

I'm 25. Got out of college in May but have yet to find a job (I still have my old job that is hourly, make ok money). I had an apartment for 5 years but just moved back in with my parents because school was finished and I needed to clear my head. I'm from Boston and would love to move back...

I've been discussing this with a girl I've been seeing and she thinks I'm way too strict. For example, if you are with a girl you consider your girlfriend and she is flirting with a guy and playfully bumps up against him, do you consider that over the line? Even if you know she would never do...

I'm seeing this girl that I'm working with (just a parttime retail job). Anyways, I was away but could see her from a distance and she was talking to some other guy, laughing and stuff. She later tells me that guy is married to someone else in the store but keeps asking her out anyways. I was...