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    Lack of Desire to Pursue Girls

    These past few months, I just have no desire to pursue girls. This is completely the opposite of how I used to be. I used to be very outgoing, mingle with girls a lot, very flirtatious, and lately I've just had no drive to do any of that. If anything, I see it as a hassle to do it. I don't keep...
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    Being Too Picky...

    Hey guys, Background: I went out with my ex-gf for about 7 months last year and she was the hottest girl I've ever been with. She pretty much set the standard for the type of girl that I want to be with, physically and personality wise. When we brokeup, it wasn't a bad breakup, but...
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    Sudden Drop in Confidence

    Hey guys, I haven't been on here in a while, but I have decided to return for some help. Lately, I have lost the drive to meet girls or get with them. I have pretty much become real lazy about approaching and flirting, which is the complete opposite of how I used to be. I can't put a...
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    Odd Situation with Friend's "Girl"

    So one of my friends has recently been seeing this girl that he met at a party that a bunch of our friends threw. I guess they smoked that night and slept together...didn't hookup. They've been hanging out a lot and pretty much just smoking together for the most part. He was telling me how they...
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    Found Key to My Happiness

    For a while now, I've never been really happy. Even at times, I would find myself depressed. I couldn't figure out why. So a few days ago, I reread the DJ Bible and watched some of RSD Flawless Natural. Then it hit me...the reason why I wasn't happy is because I was so focused on myself and...
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    College Pick Up Advice?

    A little background: I'm a junior in college and during both my freshman and sophomore year I had a different girlfriend for the majority of the year. So during that time, I had no desire to try to pick up girls. As a result, I pretty much completely lost all my game. Freshman year...after...
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    Getting back into the game...

    Hey guys...do any of you have the same problem as me? My girlfriend last year in college was an absolute HB10. She had everything in a girl that I wanted and at the time...I let my guard up and didn't get too attached to her. Eventually, I became more and more attached to her. So for a year...
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    I've become shallow

    About 2 years ago my sister started giving me tips on how to change my looks and dress better. Ever since then I've been metrosexual and it has gotten to a point where I'm self-conscious. I won't leave the house unless I'm wearing a good pair of clothes that fit me nicely. I make sure I'm...
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    Some tips from Tucker Max

    CLOSING THE DEAL: 1. You must not care if she comes home with you: Whether you realize it or not, you care if she comes home with you. You WANT to **** her, you're showing that you want to **** her, she knows you want to **** her, and because she knows you want to **** her, she has all the...
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    Why am I getting jealous?

    Okay, I hooked up w/ my prom date on prom night, and things have been weird since then. She caleld me morning after prom and asked to hangout, we never did because she flaked. Ever since that flake she's been flaking, so yesterday I've decided to not call her for a while. There is another...
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    Interesting Situation w/ Girl

    I posted this in the HS forum, but no one responded, so I'm looking for advice from the experienced DJ's here. I went to prom with this girl that denied me at first because she was going out w/ her best friend, but she came running back. I took her to prom and we hooked up. But before and...
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    Interesting Situation w/ Girl

    I posted this in the HS forum, but no one responded, so I'm looking for advice from the experienced DJ's here. I went to prom with this girl that denied me at first because she was going out w/ her best friend, but she came running back. I took her to prom and we hooked up. But before and...
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    Girl Playing Games

    Okay I need some advice from the experienced people here. I went to prom with this girl that denied me at first because she was going out w/ her best friend, but she came running back. I took her to prom and we hooked up. But before and through prom I could tell she was playing games and seems...
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    Field Report: Out w/ Prom Date

    Last night, I hungout with my prom date (2nd date), but before we hung out, she's been calling me a lot the past few days and she pretty much is really into me. So we go out to dinner (I was starving so kind of jus wanted food, not really talk lol)..it goes well then we go to the movies. We're...
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    Prom trouble with girl

    There's a sophmore who I want to take to prom, but I don't really know her...met her at a party. She invited me to her sweet 16, so I went. Called her the next day to chill, she said yah..called her later that day, but she didn't pickup or call me back. Should I call her up tomorrow to...
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    Prom Dilemma

    Okay, so I was seeing this 1 girl (went on 1 date) and it was a chill date, but nothing happened. So I called her to hangout a week later and she was up for it, but when I called to confirm the day of she said she was tired and we should hangout a following day. She started asking me about...
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    Beer and Feeling Full

    Okay lately when I've been drinking beer, I've been getting full pretty quickly. Its a crappy feeling and when you try to drink more it just won't let you. Any tips on preventing feeling full? It sucks when you're playing a drinking game and this happens...
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    Need advice for this girl...

    So I met this girl at a party a few weeks ago, but nothing happened..a lil flirting, but thats about it. She left before I could get a chance to initiate anything. A few days later she adds me on myspace and I get her screen name from there. We chat, but i'm rarely on AIM so its been on and...
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    College Guide

    I've done a search, and didn't find any good threads, so lets make one. I thought I'd make a thread for all seniors in high school to refer to. High school is pretty much over and we're all pumped for college. I see it as a fresh new start with new people. In my high school, its all guys...
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    Feeling insecure in different situations...

    Lets say I'm at the mall with my sister (she's older than me and we shop together when she comes home from college) and she goes into a girl's store...I usually feel akward waiting in there while she tries stuff on. I'm bored standing there just playing with my phone and its really akward. How...
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