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    How to gauge if a girl wants to hook up?

    Okay so I met up with a girl online a few nights ago, date went well we had a lot of drinks and made out a little bit. I'm looking for dating/having fun, she has said the same, but I'm not sure how quickly to move things. I'm tempted to invite her over to "watch a movie" but at the same time I...
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    Ex-gf attention whoring?

    So I got home last night and saw one of my ex's posted on my wall, saying "hey sexy! are you gonna go to blah blah" which is a mutual friends gathering this weekend at a pub. I have not made contact with her in almost 2 years, though it's not like we were on bad terms or anything - we just moved...
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    Anyone have success messaging friends of friends on FB?

    Every now and then I'll stumble across a girl on FB that I've never met before but I have several mutual friends. I'm really tempted to throw her a message and saying what's up, I saw you on my friends page I thought you looked cute blah blah...but I'm not sure if I should do it. It's not...
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    Speed Dating

    Anyone tried this before? There are a lot of guys in my job field but very few women. I don't get many opportunities to meet other girls. I'm kind of tired of POFSluts and the occasional party through friends. I'm 25 which is probably younger than the typical speed dater. I guess my main...
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    How to determine if a girl is DTF or not?

    I'm totally lost here I admit, and I've always been puzzled by this. How do you know if a girl is DTF or not? I always hear stories about person x fvcking person y without really dating or anything. I always seem to go on at least 3-4 dates before anything meaningful physically happens (usually...
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    Friends with benefits suddenly blocks me

    Okay so I met this girl just over a year ago, we went out on a few dates which went pretty well. She moved to a different city for school for a semester for 6 months but moved back in July. When she came back, we hung out every couple of weeks and hooked up every now and then. She couldn't...
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    Talking to girl over BBM

    BBM = BlackBerry Messenger for those who don't know. Anyways this girl who I have 2 classes in I talk to occasionally asked for my BBM pin. So we've been talking over BBM recently and done some flirting to which she reciprocated. We're both busy with school right now but I said we'll hang out...
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    Stand up straight

    Appear taller, look more confident, feel more confident. That is all.
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    Everything is based off of looks

    Not to beat a dead horse about looks, but I just wanted to (hopefully) add something. Your overall appearance will effect not only how others view you on looks only, but also everything you do. What I'm talking about here is the halo effect. If you're good looking then people will perceive you...
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    How do I proceed? Next her?

    Met a girl 1.5 years ago at a lounge, we hung out a few times. Nothing really happened between us and I wasn't feeling a good connection so I stopped talking with her. Bumped into each other here and there at school, but last week we actually set up another meeting. We agreed to meet up for...
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    Multiple Short workouts over few long ones?

    My main problem with the gym is that once I get there, after about 20-30 minutes I get bored and lose motivation. However, I have a car now and the gym is real close so I figured why not go 4-5 times a week with very short workouts? I can do about 3 exercises per workout, and that gives me a...
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    Do muscles make you more attractive?

    I know the answer is yes, but I guess maybe it should be "by how much?"? Reason why I ask is that I'm 5'9'' and have a very slight build. I get somewhat regular compliments about my looks online and in person, so I know I'm not ugly or anything although I wouldn't say I'm significantly above...
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    Do I call/text again?

    Been talking with a girl from plentyoffish. Yea I know the site is frustrating, but every now and then I get a positive response. Anyways she gave me her name to add on facebook, then I got her number from there. Been texting back and forth occasionally and she seemed interested in meeting up...
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    Calling a girl you met at the club

    I met a girl at the club on Saturday, things went smoothly and I got her number. I was gonna call her Monday night but I'm not sure what to say. Previously when I met a girl at the club I usually added her on facebook or sent her text messages. Yea I know, not the coolest thing. I'd like to step...
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    Living with Roommates in a House

    Anyone done this before? Live in a house with 2-3 other people? I'm looking to move out and it was suggested to me that in a house with a couple roommates. It sounds like a cool idea as you get to meet people and having your own house means you can play loud music and everything if it doesn't...
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    Handshakes

    I'll admit I have no idea what types of handshakes to use in certain situations. I see friends clasp their hands then do a fist bump, sometimes they don't do the fist bump. Sometimes they use 4 finger grasp, sometimes 4 fingers with the thumb grasp then with fist bump...and again sometimes...
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    Is there more to it than just how you say it?

    I'm not sure why, but if you take Person A saying an edgy comment like "That shirt looks terrible" and it could come across as being kinda mean/douchy but then Person B who says the exact same thing...it might come across as funny. I'm not talking only about the WAY they say it, but also WHO the...
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    Working as a Bus Boy

    Has anyone here had a bus boy job in a restaurant? How did you like it? Did you meet people while you were working there? I'm looking for a part-time job this summer (like 20 hours a week) and I'm considering getting a job as a bus boy. I'm also contemplating getting my bar tending license as...
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    Cool T-Shirts

    I found this site called http://www.designbyhumans.com/ and they have a lot of cool, interesting T-Shirt designs. Does anyone else know any stores or online retailers that carry neat shirts like that?
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    What pickup shows are good?

    What pickup/playa type shows have you guys watched that are good? So far I've seen: Keys to the VIP seasons 1-3 The Pickup Artist 1 and 2 I've loved both shows very much, found them entertaining, inspirational, and educational. What other shows would you guys recommend?
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