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Best advice I can give you as of right now would simply be.... FORGET HER! I know it's much easier said then done. But it's now is HER life! Who SHE dates is none of your business anymore. She's obviously moving on and so should YOU! Stop focusing on where she went on vacation, how much money...

Okay even if it is pee or not ... a real man will embrace it regardless. 1. To me I feel like it's confirmation that I've done my job. 2. Well I wouldn't say a good time to bring it up would be over dinner or anything like that lol. The best time would be when you're in bed having pillow...

How old were you? How old was she? I've thought about the 5-10 years down the line part of it. And I was scared that we would have kids but possibly get divorced or be sick of each other. or opposite. or I continued dating until I found someone 'better' and then see what happens . I looked at...

It was actually 8 months but yea that was a little quick. Hell! I was even considering on proposing at that time! I said I love you within 3 months. :/

That is extremely insightful and a great point of view. You pretty much nailed it. That is EXACTLY what happened. She let me lead...I said I love you first.... then within 8 months I was head over heels for her... and was considering asking her to marry me... but figured we move in first...

Well she ONCE questioned of even having kids... I'm assuming because she was single. Then when I said I would like to have two she said she would enjoy two kids as well. Regardless as of right now... from the all information I've been gathering on here. I feel as though she may have been a good...

So basically he is not a great wingman. Only way to be good is if ... he opens the door, introduces me, and praises me?

We were going out for a year and a half... It was a serious LTR. I was considering marrying her and her being the mother to my children... wouldn't you cry too? She wasn't the CENTER of my world... but she was a huge part of it for the time I actually did think of that. But it's a co-op and...

Kids right now...no, but in the very near future yes. She doesn't.... she's was very whatever on the subject. No... I'm not really good in getting married... with her... just right now. Excellent question here! Hmm... At first when I brought it up... I thought it'd be nice to live with her (...

"This frustrated me. I did not like living in limbo or not being able to explain it to myself or others." I can totally relate to this. I have a maybe yes.... it's just not crystal clear for me. I'm very much in limbo and can go either way.... Powerful and insightful.... thank you

My best bud, is a friggin super model. Girls just drool over him. He can literally just sit at the bar, not say a word and have girls approach him. I on the other hand, am not a super model but I'm also not by any means ugly. I'm simply just not as good looking as he is. I feel as though ...

@synergy1 I too just recently ended a relationship similar like yours except. We were going on 1.5 years. She was ever thing I could ever want on paper. Yet there was something missing... A wonder. Something that you just can't explain. And I couldn't bring myself to it. The pressure of it gave...

I do want to have kids. I'm 100% certain. I would like at least two. She said she would want the same. I feel like I'm ready to have the kids... but with her being 35 down the line marriage by around what...36-37 and kids when what about 37-38 and second kid right after 38-39? Isnt that too...

The weekend has gone by and i've been truly depressed about it all. I don't know what to do today.... i feel i should call her but it's a bad idea, unless i'm 100% on getting back with her. This is killing me. How do you guys cope? I really did love her and she's a great girl. If only she was...

I have to say I did re-read several times and it's very solid advice. Thank You ! Thing is she isn't putting the pressure on me . I'm putting the pressure upon myself. She's willing to take it slow. I initiated everything and said I wanted to move in with her (within 8 months of dating) But...

UPDATE: She packed up all my stuff to be picked up. I go over and just start crying. We start crying. I say I dont want to do this. She doesn't either. We talk it out. Yet I still end up taking all my stuf back with me. We say our goodbyes and she says to call her when I'm sure. She spent the...

Honestly, I think all men obviously think the same way. The way I see it.... is what exactly would you do differently if you were single? Do you think you'd be banging all those brauds that you see walking the street? Just because you didn't have a girl in your life now? The answer is NO. But...

Very nice. You were lucky, you porbably found each other young and spent a significant portion of your lives together. I had a 3.5 -5 Year relationship in my twenties and the rest of the time I was just dating going out and having fun on my own terms. But what you said is so true...

I must say.... that never crossed my mind. But does kinda make a little sense. I would like to ponder on this a little more and see if that maybe actually true. Very interesting point of view. Thank you for that.