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That's right. I'm thinking these sex tourists wouldn't exist if they had followed conventional wisdom like living below your means and starting a family early on in life.

That's my point. I didn't expect to meet any old men at hostels because it's more for younger budget minded travelers.

Thing is, idk when a woman is just pretending to have had a clean past or not because my beta tendencies causes me to believe all women. They know this, naturally, and they'll take advantage of me as female nature dictates. That's why I've decided to be skeptical of LTRs until I'm able to...

This can also be observed in Asian culture where most people get married and have children. I believe this contributes to the low crime rate is such countries. However, cheating is also very common because most of the beautiful women will marry men with good financial standing but sleep around...

It definitely is. Maybe instead of brainwashing, I should say programming. Because when you think about it, most men aren't willing to cultivate meaningful relationships outside of the family unit because they have the idea that such relationships should be reserved for family members. Most...

Definitely. I tried faking it multiple times but I mess up quite a bit because it's not natural for me to be a player and sexual with women. I spent way too much time with my mother and sisters while growing up and it's gonna take a ton of effort to reprogram myself to start acting like a real...

I agree with this quote because you can see it manifest in countries like India where men resort to rape and murder to satiate their horniness. I read an article a while ago about how a group of men raped a giant lizard at a zoo and murdered the reptile to hide their tracks. I don't believe men...

I'm a little scared of settling down because of bad past experiences and I'm happy to be able to smash. I'd be happier if I'm able to get the possibility of LTR completely out of my head to be honest. Still need to find out how. I should clarify that the numbers I mentioned are in the context...

Correct, I'm still confused because most of the time I just want to smash but idk why I start to think about starting a family sometimes. It mostly happens after I interact with married blue pillers who talk about how great married life is when their wives actually flirt with me behind their...

You're absolutely correct. They only want my attention and nothing else. I have the tendency to be too accommodating to females and I've been working on this issue. I will work harder at protecting my attention. I'll agree with you here. After having meditated on this for a while, I realized...

I didn't meet all of them at bars. Some I meet at normal places like the hotel lobby, or during a train ride. But I also meet a ton of old locals with their families and they're the happiest people I meet. They have fun playing with their grandchildren while sipping green tea and also have...

While traveling across SEA, I met a lot of old men whose lifestyles made me worry about what's going to happen to me if I don't start a family. One of the guys was an incel in his 60s who told me that he hates women because they're always testing him. While talking, a hot Asian lady approached...

Correct, I'm still in Mode Two and I'm going to start going Mode One. Last time, I met a girl and invited her to walk in the park. I actually wanted to tell her "I want to kiss you, let's go somewhere quiet". Instead, I said "Let's go somewhere quiet" because I was scared she was gonna take it...

I cold approach too but I end up revealing my job when they ask about it during the first date. I tried telling two of them that I'm currently unemployed and they don't want to meet again after that. So I've been using my job to get ***** but it's not the right way obviously. I also tend to...

You nailed it. I'll admit that a few times, I noticed the girl isn't even wet during sex, which proves that there's no genuine attraction between us. Are there any resources you recommend to tackle this problem? I'd scour Rational Male's website and use Google but I'd appreciate it if you could...

I was reading the "Mode One" book that posits the idea that your relationships with women shouldn't be transactional but based purely on sexual attraction. A woman should only be spreading her legs because she's horny and likes your vibe. But I noticed that women only date me because I'm a...

You're making sense here. I'm beating myself up because I just want to treat my woman well and have her do the same to me. I need to date women who aren't messed up in the head.

I've got the same problem as you because last week, I had sex but when I got back home, I spent a good 30 minutes on PH while fapping. I reckon I'm gonna enjoy real sex more once I quit.

It makes sense. I'm also reading "Mode One" right now and learning to let go of my manipulative behavior. I've got some deprogramming to do.

The journalist who wrote that piece must have been really mad at him for picking on his personal life like that. I don't personally like Huberman because he's just another fitness guru who encourages people to do stupid things and I would have preferred if they wrote about that instead of his...