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So I'm back, now living in Los Angeles and very, very happy to be single out here. Since I don't know people outside of work, I tried out online dating (okcupid). While it's rather easy for me to get first dates and more with 4's and 5's, it's my dates with the 6 - 8s. Crash and burn...

It's been a while. I've moved to L.A. and just a few months into my new city, I met a very nice girl. Unbelievably loyal, excellent LTR qualities but just one thing - really only one thing - has been holding me back during our 9 months together and that is her looks. Her face is very cute...

Here we go, count me in. Now I better start approaching!

Seems a little like a generalization, Bork.

Scaramouche, great to hear from ya. Ah, the old medicine cabinet trick. Beauty. We'll see if that's logistically possible, but I like your 'it would be evident' comment. Thank you for the reassurance - the girl and I get on great.

Other than that friend comment from origin's list (thanks bud), she has a high sex drive and is open in bed. That's it. Nothing else from the list, and perhaps quite opposite of the list. Somewhat reassuring. I'll find a way to bring up this friends thing this weekend. I don't think she's a...

I guess my fear is she's hiding it and/or on meds and it'll come out when I'm really vested in this. Maybe it is I that should deal with my own stuff first.

I've been seeing this girl for about a month now. Attractive, intelligent, and thus far I'm having a great time with her. She's definitely exhibiting high interest behavior and enjoys her time with me. That being said, there have been a few things that have come up in conversation that have...

Who the h3ll cares! Be who you want to be, BROTHA.

UPDATE: A few new words of advice for performance anxiety... - This can be quite common. Don't sweat it that you're "different" or "less of a man". You are not. - The ED pills are a crutch and could perpetuate the issue. They're not a solution. I have a better solution (next point) - Be...

One more thing to add... unless you have an addictive type of streak in you, do NOT worry about becoming dependent on these pills. Once in stride w a girl, you won't need these nor will you have any thoughts of popping one. Heck, they're expensive (the pills)!

No stigma with the pills at all. What it comes down to is a few things: - being comfortable with yourself in her presence - being confident that you will bang her tonight - being as relaxed as you can be If the pills psychologically help with this, then by all means. She's just 1 girl...

Definitely have the pill (absolutely break it in half at least) with a meal or right after, have a zantac 75 tablet too just to combat any potential indigestion from the pill's side effects, pop an advil as well just to be sure for any possible headaches, IMO. If you have the time, test run...

Again, excellent post. To take that a step further, once you know how you feel about yourself you'll know what you want out of a girl. Honestly, truly want. If a game-player is not what you want, you'll next her. But if you don't know how you feel about yourself or have your own sense of...

it could have been. But it's freaking IM convo's. I guess I was asking for it. :rolleyes: IM has very little meaning, IMO. Especially so if you've never met the girl. Thanks for confirming the cold-turkey no more online dating. Sure, have more of them. Glad I could be of service.

Get a drink or two in, start the sexy talk and see where it goes. If she's game, then green light and proceed without any second guessing yourself. Be the first one to cut through the tension. I've struggled with this but, given the right girl, I have no problems after a drink. So, my point...

Seriously Larry? No pics of Amy?! And I'm not talking about IM game here at all. It all seems like a huge waste of time. I don't want to analyze or fix my online game. My profile is anti-AFC, my pics are fine. I'd rather game face-to-face and not lose out on all the non-verbal signals and...

So, I take down my online dating profile - from a pay site. It's been the only way I've met girls over the years. I never do cold approaches. I've been moderately successful in the online dating world, but all my relationships have been from online and all of them were girls I eventually...

Happened to me last weekend, although it was mostly her technique that caused the no ejaculating. I was able to get her to finish but she was trying on me for hours (everything but s3x). Hilarious, really, as she appeared to be concerned when I left and now extremely eager to see me again...

I can totally relate to this thread. I've had this issue with most new girls. Here are some other viewpoints to consider: 1. Some say focus on you and your needs and be selfish. Sure, I totally agree, but it is very difficult and counter-productive to do with the performance anxiety over...