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My friend is good to me. He tries to set me up with women he meets. He's married, older and very outgoing with a lot of connections, so he's a good resource. I don't like what happened this week though. He met a woman at his gym. She's 28 and "hot" so he talked me up. He told me that she's...

Spinning plates all summer has brought some interesting results, both good and bad. The process has become automatic. This isn't something I have to think about or exert much effort for. It just is. I make calls, try to plan things with women/plates that are current, and go along with it...

I have a Myspace account. I use it to keep in touch with a relative and a couple friends, though one of the women (Girl B) I'm dating happened to have an account so I friended her a while back and we occasionally use Myspace to communicate. Meanwhile, another woman I'm seeing (Girl A) told me...

You know what? Fvck IOIs. Paying attention to IOIs is a waste. I'm done with it. I bet naturals don't even know what IOIs are. Stop caring about IOIs by spinning plates. My eyes have opened. Right now the women I'm doing best with gave away nothing for IOIs until I grabbed them and...

Something is messing up my game and I haven't found it, shot it and killed it yet. For the past three weeks I've been spinning 3 to 6 plates at a time, dating a load of women. My schedule is jammed full, almost beyond my capacity to manage it. Unfortunately, I'm getting friendzoned a lot...

I learned something this week: If she likes you, it doesn't matter what you say or when you say it. For me this changes the first phonecall after a date from something where I have to worry about saying the wrong thing to simply an IL test. I had taken a girl out for the afternoon walking...

I may have just experienced four-itis. :p This is the fixation on the four women that are or were your most recent prospects and thinking that they are the only women in the world. This causes you to panic, obsess and over-think your moves with any of them. I caught a one-itis four days ago...

I met a girl online, her ad was direct and to the point. Looking for LTR only, and doesn't want to "be a novelty." Hmm. C+F email gets her attention and a fast exchange of digits. Both our schedules are busy and we work hard, and she goes to school. Hard to find free time to meet. HB8...

Uh-oh, I ****ed up. I dropped my girl's IL to single digits. We've been together for over a year. I guess I'm looking for advice ranging from "buck it up kiddo, you'll do better" to "here's the obvious solution you've missed because you're upset." My girl is that unusual non-psycho...

I want advice from you pros that are used to juggling multiple girls at once. I'm fairly new at this. Again, thank you so much sosuave.com! I've been seeing a girl for the past two months, and it's been serious for maybe five weeks. This girl (speed-dating girl, for those keeping track) is...

Kids, if you want better luck picking up chicks, get a girlfriend. :D Now that things are getting more serious with a girl I do really like, the pickup opportunities are just in my face everywhere I am. I was at a regional computer user group meeting of all places, you know, a real...

Can chivalry be DJ? When you arrive at your date's home to take her out for the evening and you get out of your car to ring the doorbell and walk her back to your car, do you open the car door for her? WWDJD? :D For me it depends on the girl. What are the opinions on this?

OK, I'll try to make this short with only needed details. I got blown off by a cutie I've been dating for a month. She works in my neighborhood and lives 15 miles away in my favorite seaport touristy place. I don't want this ghost to hang around my neck where I live and play. However I've...