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Mood swings from love to "not see again" doesn't BPD make... especially when she is conflicted iover her marriage vs. desire. Get back to us on BPD when she starts throwing (literal) plates or making threats.

After 4 years in this LTR I have to agree, it's just a really bad medium of communication with women. You start to think she is able to reason through your words when she "gets it" a few times and then bam, the mood swing happens and she takes completely sane phrases to mean the opposite or...

I approached the girl in the bar with a hoodie and jeans with crazy colored hair who laughed and danced and made friends with everybody. She may not have been the beauty queen when I found her, but she had a twinkle in her eye and went from a 5 to an 8 with the right clothes and a couple...

However... eating healthy, working out, moderation in drinking... these are things she absolutely values herself. The truth is she is less responsible and more whimsical; she more easily loses sight of the goals, the 3 month targets. These are not things I would disqualify any woman for on their...

Excellent answers. It may be the truth, but being healthy and fit is not an on/off switch. I recognize my own weakness in letting frustration with her rate of change overrule the fact that she is changing in my head. Sometimes it's just the reminder that I set the example and she keeps up or...

"What is the feminine subtext" "It means just that." Yea, extremely helpful. You are like an anti-masculinity robot, yet you claim to represent women. Not buying it. Every bit of your analysis is taking details out of context and extrapolating them out to assume the worst possible situation...

Idealism can become miserable, but it's always wise to understand yourself... what you value more and what you can live without. I am always attracted to confidence and self-reliance, but romantically I need to be looked up to... which translates into someone who has the capacity to be a brat...

You don't understand ****testing is about being annoying... you think I meant that the girl leaves the toilet seat up... "redpill" = Return of Kings and therefore nothing but women haters? What are you doing here... I haven't read any responses from you (in basically every thread I've written...

Hell yea they do... just jump on a girl's pinterest and take note of all the "dreamhouse" shots she hoards... play those cards well and you have some serious chick soft-core on your hands.

This sounds incredibly bluepill... I realize this isn't a "redpill" forum, but it sounds like I'm asking the wrong crowd... At the risk of falling on deaf ears, I'll clarify. When she says "you don't listen" invariably it's a rant about something petty or perhaps important to her but not...

Being somewhat of an exhibitionist and having what I would call a healthy level of vanity, I like to post pics of my life and of course the hot woman I am with... but my instinct smells a lot of appetite for validation in this drive. I also notice that the most independent alphas I know (the...

Childhood stuff

I like this post very much. I understand why people take umbrage, but I think it's merely because they are missing D's point. These are the primary functions of womanhood, as determined by evolutionary biology, from a man's perspective. D never said the state or even some Christian Grey contract...

I am objectively very fit and several points higher in that regard, just to be clear... she is infatuated and deeply in love with me, so dread is more of a contextual field of research for me. However, my beta conditioning demonstrated a lot of passivity and so she has defaulted to leading more...

I think one of the greatest fears for the newly Red Pill is the anticipation of her "no's" when you tell her to do things, especially sexually. It's very easy to say use your IDGAF or soft next and it's not even that it's difficult to improve your handling of situations, but it can be...

I can't tell if you are writing with my other threads in mind... I've increased her breasts twice asking the doc to give her as much as he could, and she is much different than she was used to. She was always outgoing but never too overtly sexual, but now says she was made for me (with a...

She overtly communicates that she doesn't feel respected. I want to get to the bottom of it though... she has her own insecurity issues, which I have no trouble working with (comfort tests), but I am also not going to pretend that I'm not a man who thinks sexually every day. Anyway, I think we...

Red Pill instinct is that this is nothing more than a mate-guarding attempt (if mis-guided), to detract from the importance of looks when she feels ugly. On the other hand, if there is past sexual trauma (which is like half of women), is there another answer? She often gets mopey that people...

Lol... she hates Kim. I idealize Greek statues (or at least early Roman) and she idealizes chicks like Lara Croft and the girl from Terminator. Anyway, I have been thinking about a concise way to address this... No one controls you, you don't have rules to follow or commands to execute. I tell...

I wanted to alter the title but this stupid system locks your words in after 60 minutes or something... as I said later, she isn't losing control, she definitely wants to change, she is just not aware of quite how much work it takes now that she's 35. She isn't worse than when I met, she's just...