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    So I don't much care for small talk but...

    I'm noticing women seem to expect a level excitement in a conversation right off the bat. Anyone else experienced this or is just my perception?
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    OLD First Meeting/Date Tips

    What can I do to make sure I stand out?
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    I've seen a lot of advice that basically amounts to ignore her or walk away.

    I feel like this basically useless advice, not inaccurate, but pretty much lacking in function. I mean let's say someone ignores this advice, the outcome is basically the same. So if the situation always comes down to ignore, walk away, don't validate etc then what good is this forum and what...
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    Time for a Postmortem

    So I was out on vacation staying with a friend. Long story short her roommate begins flirting with me, watching horror movies, snuggling etc. She just got out of something so I wasn't planning to really do anything with. On the last day before I leave she suddenly begins avoiding me like the...
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    Question of Actual Value vs Perceived Value

    So I'm going to preface this by saying I am a bit inebriated, but my thought is how do I show value in a way that women perceive? I'm trying to say that women don't seem to notice the actual value of achievements, specifically mine but I sincerely doubt I am alone.
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    Can someone break down the ideal date for me?

    Lets say I meet someone on OLD or I meet her outside or some sets me up. What's the outline for how it should go?
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    What are signs of appearing needy?

    I'm somewhat curious about what constitutes neediness. Because I saw in another post that it's the ultimate attraction killer, but I don't understand what constitutes neediness in a texting society other than blowing up someone's phone and pressing for a get together.
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    Date Breakdown Questions

    I went on a date with an attractive woman last night, it didn't work out, she seemed extremely arrogant and standoffish. She said she wants a guy to chase, give her gifts, and make her number 1 because she's special. She was pretty as a picture but a massive B. How should I have played this?
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    Stupid comment on Okcupid.

    This girl replied to a message I sent with an unrelated comment about how a message on my profile said I don't large women and how that turned her off, how do I reply to this. It's crazy hypocritical. As far I can see there's nothing wrong with not being attracted to people who don't take care...
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    I Think I Hate the Game.

    I general it seems like it really involves a lot of posturing and disingenuity that really on works within the constructs on modern society. The stuff I read on here boggles my mind, how can women eat this **** up?
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    Looking for a Dating Coach or Teacher in Philly

    Any recommendations? The ones I looked at were way out of my price range.
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    Top Ten Rules, Experts only please.

    If you could break the game down in 10 rules, what would they be? I.E. things that should always be done and things that should never be done. A core frame work if you will.
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    How do you build chemistry on the course of 1 blind date?

    I feel like I'm doing everything right but still hitting this wall. I feel like this something that takes more than a sitting to build. I suspect that I build the chemistry in the moment but then it fizzles out.
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    I need understanding. Any advice and perspective welcome.

    Wednesday, I went on a blind date. It went really well, the conversation flowed, she was attracted to me and so on. We kissed a few times at the end of the date and she said that was all she did on the first date, which I respected and approved of. When she got home she texted that she had a...
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