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    My worst nightmare

    So I received a message around start of October, just read it yesterday tho from a girl I had slept with about 8 years ago. Her and I were friends before and had hung out quite a bit. She's Mormon and after we had fooled around for several days we eventually had sex once. A few days after we met...
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    Work stresses

    That's great, I'm just trying to figure out how to over come the mental block right now for myself. Yeah I was thinking the weed and alcohol probably don't help much. I'll check into that book thanks for the replies!
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    Work stresses

    Hey all, This site has been an unbelievable resource for me over the years for generally the best advice and support so of course here I am. I figured I would ask here and see if anyone has any input. Last year I went from the trades, I have my welding ticket and did that for about 11 years. I...
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    I am so dumb

    Which is why I said that to her in the first place, to find out exactly where I stand. And now I know. I'm just trying to understand myself from my own point of view as to why I'd fall for this garbage. I've already walked this mile and it's frustrating to find yourself back here, I got sucked...
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    I am so dumb

    You are more than likely right. In this case it's tough because her cubicle is right beside me. I don't even know what it is about her, I suppose its because my relationship is so strained. I don't foresee long term thing with her we simply don't share the same life goals. She's just hot as...
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    I am so dumb

    I should also mention the other reason I feel like a sucker. She confesses to me things that are bad in her relationship but I feel like she's mostly drawn to me because I'm established, mature, own a house, have a ton of hobbies and am relatively in shape. I think it's mostly because she'd like...
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    I am so dumb

    Hey fellas, So I'll try to keep this short as possible. Have you ever literally felt yourself becoming a sucker, but it happens any way? I've been with my gf for almost 5 years, it's been rocky for a lot of it and finally in the last month we've broken up due to her letting herself go and my...
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    Jobs you can do from home/travelling

    Hey guys, I wanted to quickly ask if anyone has some suggestions on jobs that pay decent enough that a guy could do from home or travelling. I'm pretty good with computers but I know I'm going to need some kind of education to accomplish this. I've been welding the last 10 years and I just want...
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    Booked a solo trip

    That is something that I have already considered, with kids making things extremely different. I'm wondering what that would be like now more than ever. Thanks for your input, I don't know if I even want kids though at this point in my life
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    Booked a solo trip

    I would be yes. The problem isn't with her objecting to me traveling it's her whole family and their outspoken judgement. I just block them on FB and I'm done with it, but then when she talks to them they're bashing my character because I am doing things they don't approve of
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    Booked a solo trip

    We bought together, she contributed 50% to the down payment and has split everything with me 50/50. Everything worked out good with that whole thing
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    Booked a solo trip

    I'm Canadian lol I can go to Cuba I got my flight for only $1500 so after everything I did pretty well
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    Booked a solo trip

    Hey guys, So I booked and planned a trip that I'll be taking for myself. I have only traveled to Mexico and Cuba and I've decided I've spent too many years throwing money away and not seeing the world. So last summer I made a bucket list and on it was cape town. I'm going for 2 weeks this...
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    I need some advice...tricky situation with a hot-cold girl

    The reason I found this site was because I chased a girl that was the most frustrating process, she had a bf mind you but I didn't care and that was another mistake I made. I thought I did everything right, certainly by the things she said to me I was but not with what she did. I was so focused...
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    Can anybody tell me How to escalate on first date

    How many first dates have you had where the girl says she can't think of you in that way? Several?
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    I need some advice...tricky situation with a hot-cold girl

    I hate this stuff. I assume this is from her friend? It just reminds me of a bunch of girls sitting beside each other going ok text him this now, let's see what he says. Just feels like they're making you jump through hoops
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    waitress giving you their number

    Hey guys, so I have a question. I have a girlfriend, I'm pretty happy with how it's going after a few years so this is kind of irrelevant but I'm curious So I went out for lunch with a buddy today, the waitress seemed pretty friendly, we were friendly back but we were definitely more involved...
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    Ever message your ex?

    I appreciate all your advice thank you. To be honest I don't even know why I'm curious. I think it's just to confirm what I'm already 99% sure happened, and it took me awhile after we broke up to realize everything that I thought was wrong with me was actually her problems. I've run into her a...
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    Ever message your ex?

    Hey I've been wondering this for a couple years and wanted to see what people thought. I dated a girl a little under 10 years ago. First serious relationship, lost virginity etc. I really let this girl walk all over me and if I knew then what I know now it would of been over less than a week in...
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    Any advice for dealing with family?

    Thanks fellas, I mean I know I can't change his behavior or who he is, I just think it's a shame. I don't know why it bothers me so much but I am going to not let it any more and just accept he doesn't care as much as I do.
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