My frustration is due to the fact that I wrote a post wondering whether women are worth it or not, and I got an explanation about how to get women as a reply. I appreciate it. However the whole point of my original post was just missed.
Isn't it funny?. I might be really done or not with...
Yes this represents a whole paradigm on SoSuave. Work for "yourself" and you'll get chicks. I even believed it myself
I respect it and it has the best intentions but I think it's utopian bulls***.
Why?
People ask "How do I get better with women". Many SoSuavers respond. "Work on yourself"...
No, I'm not into guys. But after tremendous suffering because of (several) oneitis, a huge (almost suicidal) depression after my ex left me, and the whole fact that we're somehow supposed to "prove" ourselves to women and do all the work, while they have plenty of choices and having to say "yes"...
I think that blaming his depression for this outrageous act is bulls***
There are a lot of depressed individuals, some of them even try/commit suicide but I'm sure none of them would condemn 150 people to his own fate.
This guy craziness was beyond a depression
From what I've read, it sounds like if you fail to attract her, it's always because you messed up somehow. Isn't a bit too narcissistic to think that it actually depends entirely on you whether you attract a girl or not?. I believe she might be not be interested at all and there's no PUA tactic...
So, since Darwin and the evolutionary/biological point of view is very popular here, the situation goes like this... two males fighting for the female.
Poon King: I'm the alpha.
And there comes Leif_Johnson: No way. I'm the leader of the pack.
Then the fight begins......
Since I'm a...
Yes, but there comes the issue that the more you care the more you push her away. If you care too much then it seems just impossible to get the girl...
A bit of a paradox
I don't get why sending a happy birthday or happy new year e-mail, sending 5 mails in 6 months (that's less than 1 mail per month) makes me still crazy about her and a "head case".
Can't I just wish her a damn happy new year???
found it http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=223160
it's a good read, ty
i have a similar notion of women nowadays and the conclusion is that we should live without them. pretty depressing stuff.
I didn't ask her out or said that I'd still love her or something.. it's a fuc*** happy new year!! And I don't accept a 21 years old to call me a "chump" or an "annoying beta" just so he feels the ultimate alpha male, I'm not taking that sh** either
How would she sense ANYTHING from my life...
My ex broke up with me 8 months ago. I sent her a very angry mail afterwards, since she broke up with an e-mail. I apologized for the mail and went into the 60 days NC rule. Completed it successfully. Then I initiated a few times through mail. Maybe 4-5 mails over 6 months. First was a "Happy...
I think there are many ways to screw up - but you never know if it was really something you did or didn't do what screwed you up. I think it's kind of narcissistic.. "if I had done everything by the book, I would have had her begging for being my sex slave". Just my two cents.
I've been through the most painful experience in my life after my breakup (2 years LTR, I fell for her hard), and I realized I'm not over it yet. I wonder, has anyone been through this process and was able to commit again to someone?. I think that if I manage to be happy on my own, I'd never...
This forum has become a pit of depression and sadness lately. Seriously, I need to believe in something to keep myself alive.
Are any guys out there engaged in successful relationships, maybe even married for years, that want to share their stories?. Have you had kids? Have you formed a...
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