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  1. Cerwin Vega

    (Guest post) Second shot?

    A friend of mine without an approved account is looking for advice (@Moti_Zayn_Bagadol) I went on three dates with a girl I met on tinder, everything went really well, I broke the physical barrier by escalating on the first date. She doesn't speak much english, we communicate mostly with google...
  2. Cerwin Vega

    Girl asked "what should I do?" when a guy is trying to game her

    TL;DR: girl I'm dating told me a guy is aggressively hitting her up, trying to get her to do things for him, starts fights and acts insulted and gaslights her about it when she refuses, then "jokingly" asked her to come over for dinner, which she ignored. I know the guy, and I don't want to talk...
  3. Cerwin Vega

    Attachment theory

    Started reading on attachment theory. Realized I'm an anxious attachment type. This has been the source of many of my life's problems. F**ked up relationship with my parents that led to me constantly seeking everyone's validation around me. I'm looking for ways to fix myself. Getting more...
  4. Cerwin Vega

    Responses to common sh!t-tests

    So today I was faced with a sh!t-test that I've had before, and I believe I handled it pretty well. HB was considering joining a team of marathon runners. These guys' bodies become nearly anorexic if they do it often enough for reasons beyond the scope of this post..anyway --- I totally...
  5. Cerwin Vega

    Resentment.

    The HB9 I'm seeing seemingly can't get over her ex. I've seen pictures of the guy...I'm taller, better looking, and about double his muscle mass. I'm also much older, with a blazing career and future, and probably much more experience. She keeps bringing him up because obviously she feels the...
  6. Cerwin Vega

    How to stop giving a f**k about this woman

    Seems like I've developed an unhealthy attachment to this HB aka oneitis. I'm obsessing over her (low) IL almost 24-7. I go nuts if she doesn't initiate anything for a day. I've got other women in my life, but not as hot as her. They're literally sending me **** like "when are you coming to...
  7. Cerwin Vega

    Cסckblocked by a FVCKING PHONE

    As some of you know HB9 wants to "take it slow", and she's still not over her ex. Yesterday, I cancelled our coffee date, and told her I'd rather watch netflix or something. She gladly agreed. Told me she has to meet her friends so we'll have like 2 hours. I was about to cancel, but I'm glad I...
  8. Cerwin Vega

    How to lose weight in 2 simple steps

    1. Eat less than your what body needs. 2. Stay persistent with step 1. It all comes up to this. Any sort of diet, meal plan, or lifestyle will try to achieve is this: CICO (calories in/calories out) below 1.0. Everything expensive diet or technique built around this idea, and tbh, they're just...
  9. Cerwin Vega

    She's taking it waaaaay too slow. Is she actually into me?

    I'm (28yo) pretty used to 1st date lays (2nd date max), but this 9/10 22yo wouldn't let me kiss her till the 4th(!) date lmao. Been seeing each other for 2 weeks or so. Yesterday we met again at her house, and when I came in to gave her a kiss she pulled away and gave me a hug instead. She put...
  10. Cerwin Vega

    Is this typical female behaviour? Am I doing something wrong?

    So I met this HB8 in a club by doing everything by the book. Been nofap for 2 weeks already so my testosterone was sky high. I live in a foreign country and don't speak the language well (working on it), she's a local who barely speaks English, well, we didn't do much taking in the club (heavy...
  11. Cerwin Vega

    Talking to a girl from your childhood (f**ked up)

    So I met O when I was about 15, she didn't put out so I went ahead and met another girl. She caught us while we were making out in the park, she didn't say a thing but she gave me the "YOU ARE DEAD TO ME" look... Fast forward, 6 years later, I found her on FB and damn...she grew up to be just...
  12. Cerwin Vega

    No-Fap challenge

    Let's go MY GOAL: 30 days
  13. Cerwin Vega

    Expiry date

    I've been dating this girl for a month who I told from date 1 that next year I'm going abroad to study. At first it was no big deal for her, but once we started regularly having sex and dating she starts telling me that she's afraid that it won't work out between us because of the distance...
  14. Cerwin Vega

    Getting past LMR

    Dating this girl for a week. She's coming over to fool around, but won't "allow" me to take off her pants. Heavy make out sessions, heavy grinding, she's moaning hard, I'm reaching to unbutton her pants and...."No". -"You're right..we shouldn't be doing this" *Continue, try again after...
  15. Cerwin Vega

    EXCLUSIVE: From HB9 to WH0RE3

    From this: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=630937303605830&set=a.147811831918382.24055.100000686979311&type=3&permPage=1...
  16. Cerwin Vega

    I'm Pissed

    So finally after 5 months I banged an hb8.5, sweet! she's a cool chick so I wanted to keep contact - long story short we scheduled a 2nd meetup at my place, and all of the sudden texts me "I can't make it tommorow :(" to which I replied "cool, no worries. We'll catch up soon.." But...It's...
  17. Cerwin Vega

    Wow...just...wow.

    http://manservants.co/
  18. Cerwin Vega

    Truth about Islam

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuxipzVtqz0 ugh. I already see the frightened "THIS VIDEO IS ALL LIES!" comments.
  19. Cerwin Vega

    Sex date scheduled, how to proceed?

    Met this girl on an internet chat site. We've been texting for awhile, yesterday had a 3hr phone call which she "confessed" to never having a serious relationship but rather a series of ONS, and said she never really "enjoyed" sex (most likely bad partners). I felt giggly since I haven't...
  20. Cerwin Vega

    What did I do wrong?

    http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=actkd4&s=8#.VAR62xYyomQ
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