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    IOI's and approaching

    Agree on both fronts here. Gym isn't the easiest place to lay game. Not impossible, just not ideal. Additionally, if we ALL waited for IOIs, no one would ever get laid or even dates. You see what you like, go after what you like. It's your job as an assertive man :)
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    Good morning folks. Wanted to post an update for all that give a f*ck (also for those that don't lol). I'm gonna continue to update this thread for the advice and for general mental sanity, regardless of interest or responses. I left off after texting HB8 on Thursday with details for Date #2...
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    Quick update- Texted HB8 this afternoon... basically asked how her day was, minimal small talk/pleasantries, and gave her details for Sunday (Date #2). She asked about my day, I told her that "I'm keeping busy trying to stay outta trouble"... thought that was a nice response haha. Don't plan on...
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    This right here is the conversation I wanted... What constitutes a good, casual text starter in this scenario? I'm a little old school, I don't always like the idea of texting without a goal. Nor do I have a ton of time to do so. It feels forced. What would be your move?
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    Thanks for all of the suggestions. I'll probably end up picking her up as to ensure I'm her ride back :) This post is just to keep myself from texting her. I've been talking to other chicks successfully, but this particular one has been on my mind recently. Supportive words to help keep me from...
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    Date 2 at a baseball game. What would be your gameplan to get her back to the house after?
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    This is something that I thought I didn't like until the most recent 12 months or so. I like how you put that. Thanks.
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    I've come a long way from where I was, but I'm still growing and learning. Thanks for the kind words.
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    I'M BAACK. WENT ON A FIRST DATE LAST WEEK AND WANTED TO CHECK-IN WITH THE COMMUNITY! <3

    Sup fellas. I've been living life amazingly the last couple years that I've stayed off sosuave. Been growing my small business, buying real estate, dating, spinning plates (gets easier with practice), and generally enjoying myself and life. Now... about the purpose of this post. There's a bit...
  10. J

    Avoid the trap of thinking she is different.

    What a read. Thanks for posting.
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    Girl with Down syndrome as cheerleader

    lol you need zero help looking like you 'deserve' to have a gym named after you.
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    Small lie, dump?

    Sounds like she was just trying to pour some sugar on a piece of sh!t to try to make it taste better. You and I look at it as "Why would she go out of her way to tell an unnecessary white lie?" When she sees it like "He's gonna think I'm dirty, but maybe now not that dirty" Now to your...
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    Defend Yourself for Equality?

    Check this out: collegedose.com/physically-abusive-woman-getting-a-taste-of-their-own-medicine-dont-be-surprised-if-you-hit-a-man-and-he-hits-you-back/ Ever retaliated, physically, after being struck by a woman? Having been raised in a household of 4 sisters and a single mom, it would...
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    Girl with Down syndrome as cheerleader

    I had this very conversation with a friend of mine the other day. The fact of the matter is simple (from point of view of retard or downs kid): You'll never be normal and will never have independence, will need to be cared for by parent (or other guardian) for the rest of said guardian's...
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    Girl with Down syndrome as cheerleader

    Cheerleading teams have tryouts. There's a certain set of criteria that needs to be fulfilled before making the team. I'm sure there's no way she could have even satisfied a small percentage of those requirements. Her spot on the team would have been better served going to an able-bodied person.
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    Girl with Down syndrome as cheerleader

    In nature, animals with 'down syndrome' die. In high school, kids with down syndrome suffer a similar fate, only they are conscious for all of it. I feel bad for that girl, for she will be held to a standard that she will never be able to achieve. Bullying her is petty and weak, as stated above...
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    Getting revenge on my ex

    I respect how you handled this situation. I'm not generally a proponent of 'revenge'... because most folks let the emotion of the situation dictate how they deliver said revenge. You carried out your revenge thoughtfully and flawlessly without hurting anyone or doing anything that sacrifices...
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    Getting revenge on my ex

    "The greatest revenge is massive success" - Frank Sinatra
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    How do I get rid of a hoebag that keeps trying to befriend my gf?

    Just pay attention to her actions going forward. From experience, women WILL be easily influenced by the company they keep. If she starts to exhibit questionable behavior, drop her. It will help you in the long run... because this can easily be a toxic situation where she feels like she's...
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    Should men sacrifice life for women and children ?

    This topic is great. Bump for more opinions
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