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    What Is The Appropriate Response To My LTR's Recent Behavior?

    With HB8 for the last 9 months. Two months ago, her dog died and she asks to stay at my place because she lives alone and was uncomfortable staying there by herself. HB8 and I essentially live together for two weeks. Exactly two weeks later, she tells me out of the blue that it's inconvenient...
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    Is This The End Game?

    I'm not really sure where I'm going with this, or why I'm posting this at all. I guess I'm just looking for guidance. The last three women I've dated were all hot, solid girls with low n-counts, the typical feminine behavior we all claim we want, and good character. This last one is as close...
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    Angry Ex-Plates

    By stroke of (un)luck, I've been running into a lot of old plates lately while in the field. Most of them really don't like me. Usually they'll come up to me and initiate a conversation, or otherwise proximally linger in my vicinity until I acknowledge them on my own. I'm not going to be a...
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    Looking For An Opinion

    Went to a bar a couple nights ago. One of my friends from grad school shows up with a bunch of her friends from work. Started talking to the hottest girl of the group. We end up sitting next to each other at a table for practically the whole night. Conversation is good, no real breaks or...
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    Two Strange, Similar Flakes In A Row

    Pulled numbers from two different girls I met while barhopping solo over the past month. GIRL A and I made out at the bar. Couple days later, we text back and forth and talked on the phone for half an hour (she called me first). 3/4's of the way through the call, she asks me if I "f*ck random...
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    Question On Recent Ghosting

    Solo'ed at a nightclub on Thursday. Direct opened a HB9 by asking her if the guy she was with was her boyfriend. She said it was her brother, her brother's girl came up, they paired off, and it was me and the HB9 for the rest of the night. She's 20. I'm 32. She didn't care about the age...
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    Did I blow it by being too aloof?

    Met a plate about a month ago through friends. We met up at a bar twice, and she's come to my house after both times. No sex because I can tell she likes me and doesn't want to come off as "that type of girl," but we made out a lot. We hung out at my house on Sunday and it was a good time...
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    Gauging A Girl's Interest Level By Doing NOTHING In Your Texts

    ...well, almost nothing. A lot of talk is made in the community about how to gauge a girl's interest level through text or what to say in those crucial interactions at the beginning to move from #-close to the date. Lately, I've been doing almost nothing. Indeed, a good strategy for...
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    Came out of lurking to ask for help

    Long time lurker, first time poster. I've been talking to a 21yo HB9 for about a month. We met at a club and hit it off instantly. We've been texting consistently since then, albeit we only send one or two texts a day (my choice ... new game tactic) and they are often spaced hours apart...
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