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    Verbally re-assuring girlfriend that I like her

    I've been dating my girlfriend for 3+ months. She is the one that wanted to be an official couple. We were lying in bed the other day and she was being a bit weird like she wanted to tell me something. Eventually she stated something to the effect that she sometimes wants affirmation...
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    Prostatitis..anyone deal with it before?

    I think I have prostatitis. This is a general term that describes irritation and/or infection of the prostate. At first I thought I had an STD. I had the classic symptoms of chlamydia. Both my girl and I got tested, the doc gave me a one time dose of antibiotics. I didn't feel better and...
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    STD Scare: How I gave my girl a massive $hit test on accident

    Not sure why I am posting this, more of a idea vomit and a story than anything else. Last week I inadvertently gave my new girlfriend a massive $hit test and she passed it with flying colors. A couple weeks ago she got a UTI, no big deal. She had not been sexually active for 7 months...
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    Early in relationship, buying a birthday gift?

    Recently a plate has been upgraded to 'girlfriend'. So far, so good. Spend time with her on the weekends, and sometime she makes me dinner on a weeknight. Been seeing her for a couple months. In that time this girl has been quite giving. She gives me back rubs, makes me dinner, brings me books...
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    Girl I'm seeing wants to participate in orgasmic meditation with a 'friend'

    Trying to make this concise. -seeing this girl for 1.5 months, agreed to be sexually exclusive. -she read this book called "slow sex" and wants to give its method a try. The principal is called orgasmic meditation. -the slow sex thing is basically someone getting a girl off via fingers on...
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    How often to you talk to your girl(s) on the phone?

    Been seeing this girl for around a month, seemingly high interest. Banged on 4th date, great sex since. Last time we hung she asked me to not bang other chicks. I agreed. I wouldn't call her my girlfriend, but she is my primary plate. This girl likes to talk to me on the phone. I enjoy...
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    GRIPE: Women refuse to be introspective

    I just had to drop a plate. I was feeling bad about stringing her along for sex when she really really wants me as a boyfriend so I cut her loose as nicely as I could. I didn't play into any of her drama, and I wished her well. The main reason why I wouldnt consider an LTR with this gir was...
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    Salsa dancing...I suck at dancing, but want to try

    My main plate suggested salsa dancing with her Friday. I know she has danced before, and enjoys it. I have never salsa danced, and generally am a pretty bad dancer. We have been dating about a month, had sex, spend a bunch of time together, so I am pretty comfortable with her, but really...
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    Dating Divorced Women (with no kids)

    I recently started dating a women my age (30). This is the oldest girl I have dated since being on the market. My typical girls are broke 21-26 who work retail or other crap jobs. This girl has no debt, works as an ICU nurse, has a decent car etc. Seems to have her $hit together. This is new...
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    Hiking Date, anyone actually done this?

    I live in a place where there is tons of great hiking, and a lot of people are into it. I went out and got beers with this girl last week (1st date), we had a good time, walked her to her car, hugged and kiss closed. I am definitely interested, the kiss was decent, but not a makeout by any...
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    30 and single...To Sell My House and move into town?

    I am thinking about working towards a significant life change. Currently I am 30, single for about 8 months from a 7 year LTR (engaged for 2). I had worked very hard to buy property with land so we could enjoy privacy and have our horses kept at home. It all seemed perfect, but it was not...
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    WTF, stumped on text $hit test

    Quick background, girl on match hits me up, seems cool, she wants to text some before meetup. I get caught in a day of mild text hell, but she sends me some cute pics and is decent to converse with. Me: "lets get together this week" her"whys that" me" whys what?" her "why should we get...
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    Un-returned Voicemail? Next or try again?

    Went on a blind date that a mutual friend suggested. The girl in question reached out to me first, I suggested drinks, she agreed and we went out a week ago. Ended up having a real good time. Several drinks, lots of kino, hand holding and a very nice kiss/makeout at the end of the night. We...
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    Discussing Reservations about friends fiance with him?

    One of my best friends is getting married next year. He is 30, she is 23. Been together a couple years. I have shared a lot of deep conversation with this friend, and I would say he is pretty naturally red-pill even though I don't think he has ever heard it talked about. This weekend I had...
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    Discussing Reservations about friends fiance with him?

    One of my best friends is getting married next year. He is 30, she is 23. Been together a couple years. I have shared a lot of deep conversation with this friend, and I would say he is pretty naturally red-pill even though I don't think he has ever heard it talked about. This weekend I had...
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    F-Close Autopilot?

    I have noticed this phenomenon that has happened with every single F-close I have had since getting out of my 7 year LTR. There has been 3 different girls, 3 very different situations, same thing happned for all three. In the morning I cannot really remember how I went from beginning the...
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    "I'll never see her again"..self fulfilling prophecy?

    I have noticed that when an interaction with plate or potential plate doesn't go the way I want, or I feel the energy changing I always have this thought as she drives off "well, I probably won't see her again". And it usually turns out I am right. Am I extra good at telling when a girls IL is...
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    Am I too lovey as a default?

    I have noticed with this girl I have been seeing that I am pretty 'lovey'. For example: -i found myself stroking her hair after banging -i cuddled with her pretty hard when she stayed over -make dinner with her (she is an excellent cook, loves to cook) -taking her on motorcycle rides -walking...
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    Do some guys just not have the player gene?

    I've been working on my game/self now for several months and I am seeing real results. The problem is I just don't seem to be geared towards the lifestyle of a true player. I think I finally got over my ex about a month ago and I started getting some good dates at this same time. I...
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    Slight Freak out during hook up?

    I met a girl at the bars. Cute hb7, 24 years old. She was super flirty with me, but like b1tchy-hard type flirty. I am actually pretty good at dealing with that, I just kind of amplify and argue and give them $hit. I was pretty sure this girl was into me, so I just kept talking to her and giving...
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