Went on a blind date that a mutual friend suggested. The girl in question reached out to me first, I suggested drinks, she agreed and we went out a week ago.
Ended up having a real good time. Several drinks, lots of kino, hand holding and a very nice kiss/makeout at the end of the night. We both live out of town, so bang wasn't happening, but I really felt good about this date. I have been on several dates in the last 6 months, and this was certainly one of the better first dates.
We had talked about hitting up some of the local swimming holes and BBQ'ing on the date, but made no plans.
I did text her last weekend when I was out of town saying:
"i propose swimming holes/beers/bbq when I get back in town"
she said: "sounds good"
I called last night to firm up plans, but got voicemail. So I left "hi this is mtnman, give me a call back"
And I get no response, no text, no nothing.
She does work as an ER nurse, so she may have been working when I called. But obviously she has gotten the message by now.
I am thinking about giving her a day or two and sending a quick text to make plans, or do I just leave it now?
Torn between confident persistence and nexting (i KNOW there was at least some interest).
RANT: I HATE dealing with this crap, I want it to not effect me, but it gets me every time. I understand when a girl isn't that into me, and the date is just so-so.....but when the date is great, good chemistry, healthy makeout at the end, do they really loose interest that fast, or just go along and pretend they are into it just for entertainment?????? I used to think that women couldn't fake a good kiss, and that was a good indicator of interest, but I am doubting that now.
Why, oh why must women change their minds so often. I don't think I am that terrible at judging interest levels on a date.
Ended up having a real good time. Several drinks, lots of kino, hand holding and a very nice kiss/makeout at the end of the night. We both live out of town, so bang wasn't happening, but I really felt good about this date. I have been on several dates in the last 6 months, and this was certainly one of the better first dates.
We had talked about hitting up some of the local swimming holes and BBQ'ing on the date, but made no plans.
I did text her last weekend when I was out of town saying:
"i propose swimming holes/beers/bbq when I get back in town"
she said: "sounds good"
I called last night to firm up plans, but got voicemail. So I left "hi this is mtnman, give me a call back"
And I get no response, no text, no nothing.
She does work as an ER nurse, so she may have been working when I called. But obviously she has gotten the message by now.
I am thinking about giving her a day or two and sending a quick text to make plans, or do I just leave it now?
Torn between confident persistence and nexting (i KNOW there was at least some interest).
RANT: I HATE dealing with this crap, I want it to not effect me, but it gets me every time. I understand when a girl isn't that into me, and the date is just so-so.....but when the date is great, good chemistry, healthy makeout at the end, do they really loose interest that fast, or just go along and pretend they are into it just for entertainment?????? I used to think that women couldn't fake a good kiss, and that was a good indicator of interest, but I am doubting that now.
Why, oh why must women change their minds so often. I don't think I am that terrible at judging interest levels on a date.