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It was not advice geared towards what you "personally see a need for". The guy said he's still having approach anxiety. Its much easier to approach men than hot women if you are a shy man. As for your personal approach....I like it. Very similar to myself.

In scenarios like this, approach the guys first. Just strike up some B.S. about football or whatever sport game was on that day. Dudes always reciprocate about sports unless this is some hipster bar. Once you talk to the guys a bit, you will get a better sense of the relationships. Could always...

The same way as anything else.....education. You have to learn. A combination of both modeling(after good text gamers) and experience (by putting what you learn into practice). I've had my share of cringeworthy texts in the past. But that is how you learn, so you know what to never repeat again.

You treat as if she was not your ex. As if you two never dated. This is obviously from a mindset standpoint, not a literal one. You aren't literally denying that you ever dated her, but your mindset should be so far removed from any previous relationship with her. I wouldn't ignore her, treat...

Zinc, this is a self limiting belief. Don't be so quick to dismiss the power of rationalization. I have rationalized away some of the sh1ttiest decisions in my life. Everything from bad business deals to being a needy desperate beta chump at times. Something as simple as...."well at least I...

Pretty good post considering the author....he did have to throw in the usual pablum at the end though. But he's right. You can't interact with women if you are scared, nervous, shy, bashful, etc. You have to arrive at the point of true outcome independence. Because at the end of the day...

:yawn: You are not part of the "5%". Period. You completely missed the entire point of the original thread and subsequently have shown yourself incapable of understanding.

Then did you embrace nothing from them??? There is a difference between "listening" and "embracing". From your comments in this thread it appears you have simply done the former. Ok. Well that sounds like basic financials to me. Pay off debt, and cashflow like a mofo then brother. Guru is...

Tenancity. For Pete's sake just go download the Audible app from Amazon and get "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill as previously suggested. It will cost you $15 right now. But every month you get another book. Think and Grow Rich was the first audio book I ever listened to. It was the door...

Bravo Guru. Congrats on the milestone. A man without goals is like a ship without a helmsman......subject to life's rough tumbles with no sense of direction.

Good stuff. Nice to see a positive posting that will actually help men. #'s 4 and 5 will be the biggest challenges for men on these forums.

Such a moronic statement. So if one's girlfriend has a miscarriage, she will still want to have sex later that night? If a girlfriend's parent dies....she is still expected to sleep with you the very same day? I could do this all day pal. Ohhhh so I see. TheException doesn't know what...

What do I give a damn what Govan thinks? You pull one kid out of the whole forums and thrust him up as proof that you are correct? :whistle: Maybe if you say it just a little louder....THEN....maybe people will listen to you.... You are so robotic and mindless. You just drone on and on about...

Great Stuff. :up:

You are such an intellectual lightweight who is struggling to prove yourself any different. You can post my words, and twist them with your logic however you may like. All it does is prove your ability to "spin". Any individual above a two digit IQ can rationally determine the points behind...

So you want me to defend my point about the existence of high quality woman(can't believe this needs explained to you), but you don't have to defend yourself when it comes to the issue of allowing sex to be your prime motivator? Ya....totally sounds like you want an actual dialect :confused...

Why is sex such a big issue to you? Not just any sex.....sex with as many people as possible. Why? There is no need to put ruin in quotations. If a man is in a LTR with high quality woman, cheating will result in the ending of the relationship, if the woman has any self worth....just as if...

Every man on these forums has and will....argue with women. And before I hear the "hey, you must mess around with low quality women....I never fight with my gf"......let me be frank.....you are full of sh1t and nobody here has time for it. Getting into arguments is a very commonplace event...

Quite the opposite. They are necessary and sufficient for one another. Using anecdotal information will take this conversation nowhere. I could say the exact opposite of you from personal experience. It's not about the few people you know and what you observed with them. The fact is women...

Completely disagree. In fact...it was only when I grew out of the "sex obsessed" phase, that I was getting laid left and right. "Becoming non-obsessive about sex" is not the same as "not trying". I've not lost interest in sex. It simply is not my "number one interest".