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  1. 8

    Need some DJ input. Did I make the right move?

    Dating this girl. All she talks about, every other sentence is "I date I guy who did this...." She gives the impression that she's dated tons of guys! On top of that, we had sex our first date... Anyway, she's working closely on a project with some guy who is constantly hitting on her. No...
  2. 8

    3 women..all think they're my gf

    They don't know about each other. One is OK for local nights. One is OK for sex. The other is wife material (but she lives a state away). I'm really torn. I want to pick one. I don't want to hurt the others. What's the play here?
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    She's testing me...or..

    OK..red hot woman. She gets what she wants. She's used to guys falling over her like flies. I dated her a couple years back. She dumped me cuz she had just gotten out of a relationship and she wasn't over him. Fast Fwd 2 years later. She wants to hang out. We do. We meet. She's playing...
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    She flakes out of the blue? Is this a test?

    Hmm..She went out of town this weekend. I hear from her Friday. (I don't respond). I hear from her Saturday. (I text a short msg back ..Drive safe.) Don't hear from her Sunday...and today she called in sick to work, and I don't hear from her all day. We've been dating for 2 months...
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    Do NOT know how to read this chick.

    She wants to keep things at a slow pace. OK When we're together, she constantly gazes at me..smiling. Her eyes twinkle, she kisses me, she says "I like kissing you." She's affectionate...she's great. But the bummer is she was a nerd in HS. No guys. Reads fantasy a lot. Wants to move slow...
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    Hmm..Did this date go well?

    First date.. Sitting at Outback..chatting..extended eye contact..lots of laughs. Date wraps up..I walk her to her car..said I had a nice time, grab her and kiss her. 1st kiss: Surprised kiss on lips. (half a second) 2nd kiss: She tried to go deeper but in ended. (half a second) 3rd...
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    Wife treats me like dog sh*t. How can I turn this around?

    Hey gang...it's been awhile. My wife shows absolutely zero affection or interest. She initiates no contact, hasn't kissed me in years, doesn't touch me, say "I love you". When I go to hug her, she stiffens up and looks away. I have to always ASK for sex. And it's in the dark, missionary...
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    FUBAR! I need some urgent advice!

    Here's the situation: Wife & I been separated over 2 years. We have a son. For my son's sake, I would like to be a family. I love my wife & she has said she wants to work things out and be a family. She just broke up w/ her boyfriend..who is a national level bodybuilder. ( I'm a pasty...
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    I called 'bullsh1t'! And she broke up. Am I in the wrong here?

    We've been dating seven months. Everything's cool. I notice a bad trend developing : She recounts events in a manner NOT consitent w/ reality. It bothers me. Specifics: Situation #1: She's due to come to my apt. late at night. I say: "Do you wanna do anything?" She says,"No. I'm too...
  10. 8

    Doesn't say 'I love you' anymore.

    She used to close IM sessions, phone calls w/ 'I love you' or 'Love you' etc. Now, she no longer says it, and I don't say it. I know this is intentional behaviour..it's not like she's forgetting. As far as I know, the relationship is going good. Is this a sign that she's losing...
  11. 8

    Ex-wife's new bf is a punk. I wanna kick is a$$.

    She's my ex-wife. I really don't speak to her anymore. But this just burns me up: While we were trying to 'work on the marriage' everytime I came over to her house , the NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOR ( who's married ) was on his front porch talking to her. I got mad about it, even posted a thread on...
  12. 8

    Serious advice needed.............

    Guys.. I need some serious advice... I've been dating this woman for 6 months. I love her. She makes me happier than anybody ever has. I know in my bones that if I were to marry her , she would make me very happy. However..I have a son and an ex-wife. My ex and I didn't really get along...
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    Aww man..I'm falling in love...

    I really didn't think this would happen! I had the mack bachelor pad, I had women lined up, I had everything ready to go for a smooth year or two of sowin' wild oats. So I met this woman. She's really cool. Like..really, really cool. Unbelievably cool. To put things in perspective, I'm...
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    Signs a woman is falling in love w/ you?

    Anybody have any concrete, definite 'tell' signals that a woman is falling in love with you? This is a serious question, and I haven't seen it addressed much in the Bible. ( Of course, I may have missed it..the fuktard that I am. )
  15. 8

    Thanks for calling! Ugh! I'm such a friggin putz!

    Woman calls me. We have a great conversation; she's all happy and laughing. At the end...I go.. 'Thanks for calling. Bye.' Thanks for calling? What kind of weak sh1t is that? I've talked to her quite a few times. I've never said this before. I have no idea why I said it. One giant...
  16. 8

    Sigh...I guess I'm her boyfriend? I think I screwed up here.

    Had a date. Went good. She spent the night & I did her. We stayed up all night having s*x, joking, laughing, and cuddling. Sooooooo...next day.. Get email saying that she's not normally that easy :rolleyes: , usually takes months etc..and wants to know if her 'boyfriend' ( meaning me...
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    This is a tough one. Woman's birthday...what to do..??

    Before I get flamed, I posted a similar thread a while back. But the situation has changed slightly. This woman is coming over tomorrow to my apartment. It's her 30th birthday. I haven't slept w/ her. She has visited my apartment before. When she came over..she brought a housewarming...
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    Arggh! I can't think straight. How should I play this??

    I have to drop off my son at my ex-wife's house pretty much every day. There is no way to avoid contact w/ her. Lately, she's been coming home from work, getting dressed real nice and sitting on the porch. The neighbor guy ( who's married w/ a small kid ) is ALWAYS out having a smoke and...
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    Riddle me this: Do women LISTEN or what?

    Ok, I've been seeing this woman for about a month. On the first couple of dates, she asks me: How old are you? How long have you been at your job? How long have you been divorced? And things of that nature. Now, all of the sudden ( and I *think* things are going good..who knows for...
  20. 8

    Dating this woman for about a month. Birthday coming up. What to do??

    Subject line said it all, but here's some details. I've been dating this woman about once a week for a little less than a month. We haven't had sex yet. ( I'm hoping this weekend, tho! ) ;) Anyway, she wants to go out on her birthday to a nice dinner. I'm cool w/ that. However...
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