Hey gang...it's been awhile. My wife shows absolutely zero affection or interest. She initiates no contact, hasn't kissed me in years, doesn't touch me, say "I love you". When I go to hug her, she stiffens up and looks away. I have to always ASK for sex. And it's in the dark, missionary only, and she doesn't kiss or even put her arms around me. She gives me zero respect and shows zero appreciation for anything I do for her. I am always, always praising her. I kiss her ass, constantly compliment her, and try to put an upbeat spin on things, but this is wearing me down. I would leave her, but it is just not financially feasible at this point. I have to stay for the time being. Yeah...I know I'm being AFC. What steps do I need to take to get her attracted or interested? I need a good kick in the ass here. Can you guys set me straight?