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    HELP: Can't choose between two girls. They're both good friends.

    I'm in a bit of a tough situation here. Basically I've been spinning two plates at the same time, A and B. I met them both at pretty much the same time. For a long while both A and B were pretty much unaware of each other until I discovered they were good friends, figures hey? And then A...
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    Falling for a girl at Uni with Summer approaching

    Basically a few months ago just before Easter I met this great girl called X. Over this Easter break we kept in contact away from University but always brief and as soon as we were back from vacation we went on a date and I kiss closed it, all well and good. During this time I was still...
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    Competing for a girl with a friend, who is difficult to gauge and loves to Friendzone

    Sosuave, it has been a while! University is going great, I am in the big run up to end of year examinations, doing Law makes it particularly difficult. I took the good advice all those months ago from here and although at the time I couldn't see a silver lining to the cloud, I've finally...
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    Jariel's post on NC

    I have asked a few questions on my ex and I hate to mull over the same subject twice but being a reasonably intellectual guy, I like to stop my mind wandering with some solid facts or what not. Anyway, I read Jariel's post a few days ago all about NC and it gave real good examples and such. I...
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    Advice on dealing with a break up at University

    How does someone get rid of the worry of your ex girlfriend or love interest getting with other guys in the future? Right now I don't have any feelings or motivation to go and get with other women or sleep with them, I've just got feelings for my ex What's worse is that I know I will...
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    Girlfriend doesn't want a relationship, her feelings all over the place, advice?

    To everyone here, I really need some strong uplifting words and advice from the pros here on what to do. A few days ago it felt like I had lost all my feelings for my girlfriend or girlfriend I am still seeing but not in a relationship. Basically, I managed to discover what was going on...
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    Why does it feel like my feelings have changed? Really would appreciate some advice

    I'd appreciate it if anyone could give me some advice on this About two weeks ago whilst my girlfriend and I were away from each other for Christmas on a break as mentioned in an earlier question, I started to get little doubts about the way she felt about me, which I knew was stupid, it was...
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    What to do if your best friend/wingman ****s the girl you want.

    It is a straight forward answer, I got over or am getting over my oneitis, and the one girl that I have liked or sort of felt something towards rather than getting bored, was ****ed by my bestfriend, I only found out this evening from another source that it happened, and he came round and...
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    "Do what makes you happy" Are you happy or is it an illusion?

    Do what makes you happy. We’ve all heard it said. But when do we know whether what we are doing is making us happy, or just creating an illusion that we are? There’s a classic scenario in the dating world that all of us have done once and it comes when we should be saying enough is...
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    Is it possible to prevent Jealousy and the "she's the one" mindset?

    I recently sought out the advice of more experienced PUA's over a case of one-itis that I am going through, I love the girl, but this post is not about that. One bit of advice I received in particular was the following. "Jealousy are normal emotions and must be metered in some way...
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    In serious need of help to overcome what I think is severe ONE-ITIS, its ruining me.

    Background information. Around three years ago, I met a girl when I was around 15 who I completely clicked with, when i say completely, it felt that like after a few weeks we completely knew each other, we'd talk effortlessly every day. Unfortunately that ended as quickly as it started, with...
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