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I have no problem attracting women...just not the ones that I find desirable. I get told how attractive I am from 6's and 7's, but I get very lukewarm responses from 8's and above. Not that I am looking for a supermodel or anything. Just a woman that is physically appealing to me. Anyone else...

Do you guys think that this classic book would help with dating? Personally, I believe that it would definitely open a lot of legs if applied properly.....

Why is it that so much dating/PUA advice focuses almost exclusively on meeting women randomly (i.e. at the mall, in bookstores, bars, clubs, etc.)? Meeting women in these environments, as compared to meeting them through more "natural" means (i.e. through hobbies, mutual friends, organized...

What have you guys found to be the best places/situations to get ONS? We all know that vacation spots (beaches, Vegas, cruises, etc.) and weddings are great, but where are some other places that swing the odds in your favor?

Ever been out in public somewhere (bookstore, mall, bar, etc.), spotted an attractive woman, approached/ opened successfully, and then minutes later her male friend/ boyfriend shows up?

It's very difficult to get a group of people together to do something spontaneous (i.e. a road trip, hitting up a random party, etc.) I'm sure much of my outlook has to do with the people I know, but generally speaking, in my opinion people are very much controlled by society (especially those...

I live in Winston-Salem, NC, and dating sucks here! Every women seems to be either married, or wants to be married soon. It's a conservative town with barely a night life to speak of, and it's very cliquey. People only associate with those they know from high school, college, work, etc....A...

People (women in particular) get dressed to the 9's on a Friday or Saturday night, meet their friends at a bar or club, and ONLY socialize with their friends. Anybody ever think about the paradox there? People going to a social environment (i.e. bar, club, party, etc.) and refuse to...

I met this chick about three weeks back, and we've been texting ever since off and on. I've tried to steer the text messages into a more sexual direction, but she plays coy. She's obviously interested, seeing that she always texts me back, even deep into the a.m. Our schedules keep conflicting...

Any of you guys every have a terrific interaction with a girl, thinking the entire time that you made a great impression on her, only to call/text her a few days later and be ignored?

I approached this college-aged girl at the mall who was working at a Kiosk. She was reading, and I opened up with "Let me guess, you're ready one of the Twilight novels, right?" She responded with "No, I'm reading this sex novel called "Shades of Grey." I joked with her by calling her a...

I've been texting a girl who is seeing another guy. We text often, and she seems interested. However, she invited me out to a club last Thursday, only to be hugged up with the guy she is seeing. I talked to her about it later, and she apologized for that. The guy works at the club, so every...

I went to a porn shop the other day and had a cool conversation with an attractive woman who worked there. While she was cool, I can't help but think that women like that consider all men who enter a porn shop to be perverts (kinda like how strippers usually hate men, or at least their...

I've been dating my current girlfriend for almost two years now. We're compatible on many different levels. However, where we clash at is religion.... She was raised in a somewhat strict baptist home (she's a pastor's daughter); I have a liberal, somewhat religious background. We have had...

Conventional wisdom suggests that women are less guarded in gay clubs as opposed to straight clubs. What do you guys think? Anyone have any personal experience/stories?

I've been hitting the clubs over the past few months. I like to drink, and I enjoy the atmosphere of scantily clad women and good music. But I think nightclubs are among the most difficult places to socialize with people--much less meet women. There are many obstacles to overcome--noise...

Ever been walking down the street, when you come across another male who is walking in the opposite direction towards you, and you wonder who will make room for the other person to walk past? Instinctively, I'm always the guy who makes room for the other guy. It's really an act of...

I've been in a relationship with a good, Christian girl for about a year and a half. On paper, she's the "perfect" girlfriend: she is 22, faithful, and a genuinely good-natured, kind person. She cares for me deeply (I'm her first boyfriend), and wants to get married in a couple years. Without a...

It is common knowledge that many men will sleep with any woman willing to have sex with them. When a man is just beginning to have success with women, such a mentality is somewhat understandable. Somewhat. Past a certain point, though, having sex with sub-par women can have a negative effect on...

Had this discussion with a few friends earlier. At what age should a man stop going to clubs? Interested in you guys' opinions....