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    GF wants sex all the time

    Hey guys, has none of you had that situation before? When I'm with my girl for the weekend, for example, we'd have sex twice in the evening, and then again in the morning. Then she'd fix us some breakfast but afterwards she immediately wants sex again! Every bloody time, all the time! I'm...
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    FR: I'm so bad at building sexual tension!

    I have a weak point, but recently I've really had a bad streak and I can't take it anymore! This post: Field report Next post: My own analysis Finally: Your opinions, please. Just got back from another date. There's this girl whom I met at a meetup, she seemed (decently) into me, no resistance...
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    Girls below your standards: best way to friends w/ benefits?

    Through online dating I meet a lot of girls who are really cool and down to earth, but a bit below my standards looks wise. Just now I came back from a "date" with one. Considering her, for example, I really enjoy her company, and she hopes to get with me. However I have decided that she...
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    Get the power back after flake

    Met this girl which recently flaked. I figure I wasn't enough of a challenge, so if we do meet again, how can I turn this around? 1st date: hit it off great, her standing real close to me all the time, makeout at the end, all lights supergreen No text or call from her though. I initiate...
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    I'm busy for some weeks but want to keep her hot

    Hey guys. I've known this girl for a bit, recently been on a proper date and there's good interest by both. So I want to make the next date an evening thing, not expecting sex but certainly some escalation! But I don't have time the next 2 weekends, so I want to keep her hot during that time...
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    ****, I was not dominant, again.

    Situation: So I went to the town fair with a girl tonight. Both of us are working tomorrow, so it was clear that it would only be 2-3 hours. She's an acquaintance from work, we've had a casual coffee before, this is basically the first time we're on a proper-ish date. About her: She's very...
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    Typical advice on lasting longer...

    Can you please clarify the following things: 1) The tip I hear most is to breathe, relax, don't worry and just feel good. But if I do that, then I feel really good and come all the faster :o 2) Shallow thrusts: stimulates the head even more, bad idea 3) Think of crazy maths etc.: I lose my...
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    First date idea which is not (only) drinks

    Hey, what's your favourite first date if you've already chatted to the girl for some time? Went to a party last friday, it was pretty lame. Was really bored when a friend introduced me to this girl. Ended up talking to her for at least an hour, she was definitely attracted, we were even holding...
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    Holy sh1t I failed pretty hard

    Just now I thought of this cute coworker of mine, how we had shared great chemistry when I last talked to her. I'm leaving the company soon (she knows this), so I thought damn! I should go and ask her out, would be a shame not to! But instead I pulled a complete AFC, it's quite funny really! I...
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    I have 2 weeks to get laid!

    I'm leaving the country in 2 weeks, and HELL I want to get laid one more time! I've been in kind of a slump, and now, as a surpreme demonstration of willpower, I want to do everything I can to get laid once more before I leave. I have nothing to lose, so this time I really want to go balls out...
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    Don't want to be like my dad

    Since I got into my 20s, I've grown disillusioned with my dad or with him being a role model. He's cold, frigid, distant, close-minded, and largely uninteresting. But with every passing year I realize I'm more and more like him. I'm really trying hard but I always revert to my old...
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    What to do with my hands

    I seem to be fidgeting a lot with my hands and arms. I just watched a lot of party pics of myself, and i seem to show a lot of awkward poses. I never noticed until now, actually! The only times I look natural is when I'm pretty drunk :D Do you ever get the thought "huh where do I put my...
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    How to tell if her orgasm is real

    So I fingered this girl to orgasm. But I'm not sure it was real. How can I tell? Buildup was good, she's flooding wet, breathing harder, rocking against me, holding me so tight I'm almost suffocating, and suddenly nothing. No contracting, no shaking. I'm not sure if she was faking it... how can...
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    Man and Woman and Nietzsche

    Original here, I translated it for you. What a nice text I thought! It starts pretty harmlessly. For example we think we could have a nice relationship as Woman and Man. By thinking we can transcend our Man-ness and Woman-ness, and immediately reach the "human" level. Of course we should strive...
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    How to filter INTERESTING girls

    These days I can be quite bored with girls and I notice it's not about entertaining them, but entertaining myself. I thought about my convos with girls, and I noticed that while some are shallow broads, there are some girls which I became REALLY interested in (not purely because of the body)...
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    How to quickly find out if she has a BF

    I've been travelling around, and meeting many girls in the backpacker hostels, and everywhere I go I just take one and we explore the place where we're at... well usually it's really good, girls on vacation are easy and if you got a room to yourself then you're good - I've gotten laid like this...
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    Have others force me to man up

    Hey guys just now I come home from a date with only a kiss and the girl is flying away tomorrow. And she said: "Had you been more direct from the start it would have worked with me". Now it's good advice, but it's something I KNEW ALL ALONG and it has been my problem FOREVER! I realize today...
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    Throwing a party, but not at home?

    Hey guys, I'm leaving the country and want to throw a farewell party for my friends, but I can't do at my place because my flatmates won't allow me... plus we have a white carpet :D ...so any good idea where I could go for the party? I mean I don't want to rent out a bar, it's not going to be...
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    Direct openers, in a non-sleazy way?

    Hey guys, I've shyed away from cold approaches too long but I see so many pretty girls walking down the street, sometimes even smiling at me, it would be a shame to not talk to any! For daygame atleast I want to try being completely honest and straight-up. So I'd like to open with something...
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    How to choose a restaurant

    Okay guys, I'm aware that dinner usually is not the best choice, but in this case we've already had a coffee date, an action date and then she called me and asked me out for dinner :o I was busy that time, and since she didn't follow up I thought I'd ask her out to dinner instead. Can't...
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