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PART 2- STOCKHOLM (cont.) Fly to Stockholm on a Friday, follow the nurse's instructions and meet her at the bus stop next to her apartment. She lives right next to the hospital! We go to her place, drop my stuff off, then go to the grocery to buy ingredients for dinner. Her apartment is...

PART 2- STOCKHOLM This girl had left a really good impression on me, easily becoming my top plate despite the unrealistic distance. Not only was she very good-looking, but she seemed down-to-earth (a rare combination), and most importantly she had hooked up with me, the drunken sex was good...

Here is a recent conquest I'd like to share because it was one for the books of my own experiences. PART 1- AMSTERDAM Matched her on Tinder. Thin, blond hair, brown eyes, big DSL's, hints of a great rack under her somewhat baggy button-up white shirt. She was visiting her girlfriend in my...

She broke up with you. Isn't that rude? If you do respond, agree and amplify what she said when she broke it off, albeit in a cordial way. Read THIS

I recently went through this. Our relationship dynamic was always her wanting attention to ease her anxiety about us, and me staying aloof and avoidant. I always kept the power and we broke up twice, both times initiated by me because she was pushing too hard. After the first breakup, she got...

We both live in Amsterdam. I'm American too, and have been an expat here for almost a decade. My last relationship was a 2+ yr LDR and it will be my last LDR.

She is from Saint Petersburg

I think women will appreciate these qualities if you have high enough value and interest in their minds already. Otherwise, they take these qualities for granted as part of your "duties as a man". For example, all those nights spent giving her advice and comfort to help her start a career or...

Great post, this really helped me get out of my current needy mentality to have a relationship. You know, it reminds me of the saying : "If it flies, floats, or f****- rent it." Well, I already own a boat. It is low maintenance and it was so cheap that if it gets stolen I already got my...

You're absolutely correct. The more I ponder on it the more I realize some subtle cues that lead up to this. One would be that she never slept over and we always had sex on a "school night" so that she had a good excuse to go home. I kept waiting and expecting for her to open up and she...

I definitely stopped being a challenge to her in a short amount of time. Even though I was continuing to date other women, I didn't let her know about it and always made myself available to be with her. I actually felt guilty about dating the others and feared her friends might see me on...

Her culture is less PC so the men there aren't as afraid to express themselves for fear of losing their livelihood/ reputation/ wealth and getting in legal trouble. I've never dated a Spanish girl but have heard that the women from Mediterranean Europe are known to play much harder to get. Its...

We're all expats taking these lessons to be able to speak the local language and take tests to get permanent resident status eventually, or at least know the local language better. The class consists of me, two other guys (gay couple), and a Ukrainian woman (older, married) and our language...

I met her (petite blond, Russian, 26) at a bar last November. She was sitting there all alone, very late. Managed to make out with her but she wouldn't go home with me. However a couple days later we met back up on a date, it was an amazing day together, she ended up having dinner back at...

I had to deal with this situation before. It sucks. One thing you can learn from this situation is how to really control your emotions/ how to resist your instincts. Think of it as this is going to make you stronger. In my case I had to be around the ex for over 1.5 yrs. She eventually...

Also, although a lot of the advice on here is age-old advice, we are living in different times from our parents. Game is necessary now. Globalization, cell phones and the internet have quickly changed our culture and society. We are the guinea pigs in a transitional period adjusting to this...

Sounds malignant. This is a good one to refer to in such cases: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/09/21/curing-oneitis/

Exactly. There's no such thing as the One, there is just the one right now.

Hey guys, it's been a long time since I've been on the forums. A new girly has brought me back, and I might add her story to this thread, but before that here is an update to what happened with the Swedish girl (the story above) because I think the real-world experience on here is the most...

I can relate because the girls where I've been living think its cute when I attempt to speak their language. In fact approaching women is really the only incentive to learn the language here since everyone speaks English easily anyways (besides the fact that I feel inferior for only being...