Recent content by The Deacon

nonameok, this whole dating thing doesn't get any less awkward unless you make a concerted effort to make yourself experienced. From what I've read, you've been with so few women that any interactions with the opposite sex feel unnatural. There is no magic pill but experience. Get out there...

Yeah, I've felt that tension before. And sadly, there were times I didn't do anything about it. Honestly, all you need is balls my friend. Balls will get you more mileage than anything else.

You're right, but if you want success you can't think about this possibility. If it looks like an IOI, you should act like it's an IOI, period. If you're gonna second-guess IOIs, you're never gonna get any.

You can be good-looking and nice and get some. The answer doesn't lie in being "ALPHA," really. It just requires a little balls from time to time. (Being alpha doesn't hurt your chances at all though).

Has there ever been truer words spoken?

OP, I doubt that these overly paranoid DJ/PUA ideologies got anyone action. Some of these guys are so ridiculously beaten down by the shallow nature of woman that they alienate them as some enemy to be conquered. Half of the FRs I read sound more like a porno movie than some real life...

Hey, look on the bright side, maybe she'll be impressed with its size and rub it for you.

Lol.

Not every silence is an awkward one. You know what makes someone seem really dorky? Someone who gets really antsy whenever no words are being exchanged. When you do that, you're supplicating and you're coming from a place of lower value.

Dude, some people just don't get laid by the time they're 22. It's OKAY. You're not a freak or anything. Quit beating yourself down and just get out there. Anyone who judges you is probably a douchebag, plain and simple. You got to start somewhere. And contrary to sosuave belief, some...

blackbelt2k, you're thinking about this too much. The text messages make it pretty obvious she likes you.

You're right, but by the time the marriage fails she'll probably have two kids and not be very attractive anymore.

Honestly, it sounds like she's jealous.

Shy, church girls are a bit more difficult since they're harder to read. They're so sweet but oh so fickle. Is this a shy girl who's REALLY attractive? If so, then she'll probably have boys flirting with her all the time during bible study class, and she'll probably be fairly popular in spite...

This is some heavy sh!t. It also sounds like you're genuinely in love with this girl instead of just clinging to her because you don't have any other options. I grew up in a Christian family and my parents would have two hemorrhages apiece if they knew someone I slept with had an abortion (I'm...