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    Bought a house with the girlfriend uhoh

    I get the impression that you did not "see a future for us" either.. I understand that proposition was not attractive but like others have suggested to the original poster. You could have asked her to move in with you and give her the option to buy some equity (or rent) over time while you...
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    Bought a house with the girlfriend uhoh

    Cohabitation does require some compromise and she is paying half. I think living with her is not what you want. You have stated clearly what you want. My advise is to listen to your gut and don't go against it because this could turn out to be a huge emotional and financial mistake.
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    Turned down a single mom for a "one night stand".

    She was attractive and fun and wanted a one night stand. Wear a condom. You paranoid bro?
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    okcupid: 13 profile visits - no message

    Logically, you would think that if a women likes your profile on a dating site she is sending you some kind of approach invitation. Not necessarily. Just because she visited your profile, it does not mean that she has to message you or even respond to you if you message her. Just because your...
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    flake today: these b-itches have no manners

    She forgot. How can she cancel a date she forgot about? Its not good form from her to forget but I don't think she was being rude. Since she offered to see you later you should have given her the benefit of doubt. Its only a slight change of plan, (she didn't fancy going to the cinema) you...
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    Doesn't saying when you free sound like your too avadadible ?

    Asking her when she is free puts you in the position of making yourself available to her on her schedule. Telling her when you are free can make you seem more scarce if you have limited time and she would have to make herself available to you on your schedule. In my opinion, if two people...
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    Need financial Advice- Fed up

    Your going about this the wrong way. I made the same mistake by following what I thought would make me the most money. In other words, money was the major motivator. Lets say that didn't work out in my favor and my profession ended up finding me. My advise to you is to do something you...
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    Average Cost of a Date in 2015?

    Take in to account your CPA (Cost Per Action) Lets take $50 as the average cost per date for this example. Women number; 1. $50, one date, goes nowhere. 2. $100, two dates, goes nowhere. 3. $50, one date, goes nowhere. 4. $150, three dates, goes nowhere. 5. $50, one date, goes nowhere. 6. $50...
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    Plate accuses me of giving her thrush...

    its not sexually transmitted. It is a kind of yeast infection. She should be able to clear that up with some cream that has the ingredient ketaconazole.
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    Need financial Advice- Fed up

    Start with being grateful and happy for what you have. Then focus on what you do want and support it with the necessary actions to make it happen. Your mindset is keeping you in a place you don't want to be because this is what you think about and focus on. Think about only of what you...
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    Why is it OK for a woman to hit a man, but not for him to retaliate in self-defense?

    Lets flip the script. You are standing at the bar with your buddy and some random butch women tries to force herself between you. Your buddy makes way for her but you become obstructive, then raise your fist threatening to hit her. she restrains you. You don't like that so you make a half ass...
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    Best way to reduce belly fat?

    calories burnt > calories consumed = weight / fat loss. Work done = force x displacement. The more work you do the more muscle you will potentially build and the more fat you will potentially burn. Eg, 3 sets of 10 reps of multi joint compound movements like squats, pull ups, clean and press...
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    Paying

    You went splits on the last cheap date, no probs. If you have chosen to keep backing this horse and take her out to dinner then you should by default pay. If she offers to pay or go splits (good sign), pick up the bill anyway and tell her she can get it next time. Next time, she might even...
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    waiting for her reply

    You could have said, "No problem, lets do Sunday". If she gave you a similar excuse for Sunday as well, that she needs to check then just reply with, "Maybe some other time then" and leave it. She should know when she is off from work. If she cant make solid plans then expect flaky behavior.
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