Recent content by MikeOck

Unfortunately, that isn't how things work in the US. If she chooses to leave you, she will get half of your stuff, plus alimony since she is now unemployable thanks to a 10 year gap on her resume. You'd probably get stuck with child support too since most kids prefer to live with mom. There is...

It should be obvious to anyone that this is moving WAY too fast. The big rush is a major red flag. Just to be clear, she is NOT "in love" with you, she is in love with the idea she has of you in her mind. She can't possibly know enough about you in 3 weeks (or 9, or 26....) to know that you...

I think the main reason is: Coming from a family that has never pressured me to get married, I still find it shocking how many of my friend's families have pressured them into marriage. They would (and do) send their sons into the lion's den in order to satisfy their own selfish expectations.

First of all, these guys have offered some good advice. Guru1000 had some really good suggestions for physical appearance that would help you pull hot, young women consistently. HOWEVER, a HUGE part of your specific problem is one of self-esteem: you simply have none. I'm not a doctor, but...

Getting back out there after a breakup can be tough, especially as we get older. If your self-esteem is low, women can smell it like a shark smells blood. Except instead of starting a feeding frenzy it starts a revulsion frenzy. Nothing dies the panties up faster than a sad, desperate man...

I know that this sounds like a good idea to you at the moment. I can promise you though that it is not. If you send that note, or flowers, or anything other than complete and total silence, you will regret it. Look, getting dumped hurts. The pain you are feeling is your ego questioning it's...

Your friend is a classic "Nice Guy". He is under the misguided belief that if he is nice, generous, and compassionate to a woman, it will eventually make her thighs moist and she will "Dump That Jerk" when she realizes what a "Perfect Catch" he is. The reality is that every single time a man...

You say you are religious, so would you marry a non-muslim man? Since few "white" men are muslim, I suspect this will be a major obstacle.

If you just want to sleep with as many women as possible, there is nothing wrong with pretending to be someone you are not. The women won't be around long enough to figure out that you are full of sh!t. If you want to find a woman who will stick around for the long term, the better option...

She is obviously faking it, or it might be better described as role playing. My money says that she dated some guy in the past that really liked her being loud the whole time. You can either talk to her about it ("I love that you get so into it, but I find it distracting..."), try to make her...

It is still up and working for me. It is on google drive, perhaps it has something to do with your country?

Having a kid, or in this case multiple kids, greatly reduces her relationship value. This isn't a slight, it is a simple fact. Kids take a lot of time, work and money, as a dad you should understand this. Each kid is like coming into the relationship with a $250,000 debt (the current estimate...

Simple: Stop answering the phone when they call.

She is definitely sleeping with her ex. If a woman ever tells you the part in bold again, BELIEVE HER. 110% guaranteed that when she told you this she had recently slept with him and was feeling a bit guilty. She is not in a position to have a healthy relationship with you after just...

Seriously? You should have blocked her a long time ago. You haven't because you are still very much hung up on her. Your posts scream it. You'll never move forward if you continue standing still. There is no happy ending with her. Not now, not next year, not ever.