Recent content by davewe

Morality may not be arbitrary when it comes to children, but the definition of what is a child is. 18 in some states and countries; 16 in others. So then the only thing that is offensive here is whether she is a child? If she was getting nailed by a 23 year old bf no one would care. Hell...

So now the girl's 12? So she's gone from 18 to 14 to 12. And we know this how? Cause someone reported it on the news; the tip was received from the mother or soon to be ex-wife. Certainly if there was sexual contact between the two before she turned 18 he'll have plenty of legal problems...

Frankly the complaints from the feminists and moralists make more sense than this. Not that I agree with them but at least they make sense. Your criticism boils down to two things: 1. He's not Alpha enough for you. 2. They may be caught in embarrassing social situations. If these are...

Exactly! As a guy in his late 50s, growing up there were two absolute, immutable sexual taboos: homosexuality and interracial sex/marriage. As to the former almost no one came out of the closet; for the latter, interracial couples were shamed, attacked, and subjected to all sorts of hatred...

The knee jerk reaction (and certainly my knees jerked when I read your original post) is to take the lad and raise him up right. But as an ex-step parent, the one real caveat I have is - you're not his grandfather. The first time there is a problem the mother will tell you, "You aren't his...

I am 59 and have two kids and home with me (no wife): 12 and 16. So don't worry about not being a 'spring chicken". You can do it if you decide to. If he is 9, in a couple years you will be able to leave him home alone at least a little bit, which will give you back some of your freedom. And...

Don't get me wrong. I am totally on your side. But I was married for a long time and it went from twice a week to twice a month to once a month to once in a blue moon. By the time I woke up to the fact that there was a problem - there was really a problem. So your being self-aware is good...

I agree that this is not a big problem - yet. But if the twice a week becomes once a week becomes once a month...At some point it would then be a problem. But if both of you are Ok with twice a week then you are perfect for each other.

A lot of truth here but the article is unlikely to change a single American woman.

This thread has bothered me from the beginning and here's why: First, I would prefer that we refer to sexually assertive men, not aggressive. Sexuallly aggressive has a different conotation. But what does it actually mean when a woman calls a sexually assertive but "unattractive" man...

Even if she insists on celebrating it on the actual date, I dont get why they could not have done brunch or lunch together or just had a giant f*ck fest after the game. And as was said before, this is more than a guy who is a fan - this guy works in the industry. What would have happen if SI...

The sex is supposed to stop after the marriage not before :) And the idea that she has had major hormonal changes by 25 seems like folly to me. Unfortunately I agree - do not marry her. However, all the comments about getting it shape, becoming a workout fiend are equally folly. Of course if...

I like Leykis, have heard him say this often, and understand the general concept, but I disagree, especially as I get older. And that ain't laziness or lack of creativity. I'm a professional writer and feel reasonably creative. The key for guys at any age is that they should not do with a...

To quote Groucho regarding aging, "You're only as old as the woman you feel."

Well few men of any age get "whoever they want" but I can assure you that you can have plenty of options. 'Course that depends on your attitude, health, success in life and a host of other factors. But I would say that at 22 you should try not build too many limits into what your future may...