Recent content by ChesterB

Hmm, here is what I did with the girl my thread No matter what you do - It's wrong!: We were standing next to each other. At some point I just put my arm around her. Some time later, we took each other's hands. Another while later I started moving my lips very close to her ear (I was more or...

Now I thought of writing this to her: "Hey, I kissed you, because I like you and I wanted to know if you're genuine or just playing games with me. If you think that was a mistake, then I must say, you're pretty uptight." What do you think?

@So pimp its scary: lol, it's really funny the way you put it. Yeah, maybe my kissing was too aggressive. Bah, who cares? (btw, she's 18)

Good point, Slickster, difficult to put into practice, though. A friend of mine thinks she's playing hard to get now, because she's thinking she left a bad impression. Do you guys have more suggestions of what to write to this particular girl now and, if I have another date with her, how...

As I wrote, I already lost lots of girls and I think one reason is because of not kissing them, but I don't know really. I'm confused now. She seemed comfortable. It didn't take too long though. Afterwards we spent another one or two hours together and she was always eager to hold my hand or...

In the past I've lost a bunch of girls (I think) bacause I didn't make a move on them. So I changed and became more aggressive. This is what happened now: On the second date, I was making out with the girl. Afterwards she said: "You're aggressive. I didn't think you were. Ah, you men are...

You should prepare yourself briefly before you call: Think about what you want to say, possible reactions of hers and how you are going to react then. Take a deep breath and call. BTW, recently, I don't tell them on the phone what we're going to do, I just say, "Hey, do you have time at (day...

Maybe I didn't express myself clearly: On Wednesday she has time for a date.

I've been making out with that girl last night (Saturday), our second date. When we parted she said "Give me a call." Stupid me replied "Oh yeah. When do you have time?" She: "Wednesday night." Me: "I don't think that I have time then." Now I'm wondering when I should call her. Today...

I see. "To study" is the correct word. Good to know that.

Yeah, recently, I'm getting lazy when it comes to picking up chicks. LOL, I like your plan.

Explain, please.

Thanks for your replies, guys. What I want to do now is to give her one more chance, but let her know that her behavior is unacceptable. I think, I should have sent that SMS, but it's too late for that now (24 hours after she sent it). So, maybe I should mention it next time I call her...

How do you get to the gym and what do you do there? I usually go by bus and do martial arts courses. If you do similar things (i.e. courses with a set end time), you can talk to people after the course in the bus. To guys you can talk in the locker room as well.

Sunday I called a girl to set up a second date on Wednesday. I told her it'd be best for me at 4 pm, because that's when the lecture I attend at the university ends. (Btw, I recommend setting up dates directly after lecture/work/school, it saves time) She basically agreed, except she has too...