In the past I've lost a bunch of girls (I think) bacause I didn't make a move on them.
So I changed and became more aggressive.
This is what happened now:
On the second date, I was making out with the girl. Afterwards she said: "You're aggressive. I didn't think you were. Ah, you men are all the same."
Me: "Well, you women are all the same as well."
She: "Did you have so many?"
I didn't answer to that, I think she believes I did (which I didn't).
Anyway, two days later I tried to call her and her cell phone was off. So I wrote a SMS "Hi C, how are you? It was nice to spend the Saturday with you. I have time on Thursday, what about you? ChesterB"
She turned her phone back on one day later. (I know that because of a cool receiving confirmation feature.)
Her reply: "Hi, sorry I don't have time. I'm sorry to say this, but the kiss on Saturday was a mistake. I'm not one of those girls who are making out after the second date. I hardly know you and I've been disappointed because of this a couple of times for this reason. I don't want to take the risk. Sorry! I should have told you earlier, but this just became clear to me. I don't want to be the used one any more. mail back, C"
Damn, she seemed to have a high IL.
Do you think I can do anything to improve the situation with her?
What are your experiences? Is it generally bad to be making out on the second date?
So I changed and became more aggressive.
This is what happened now:
On the second date, I was making out with the girl. Afterwards she said: "You're aggressive. I didn't think you were. Ah, you men are all the same."
Me: "Well, you women are all the same as well."
She: "Did you have so many?"
I didn't answer to that, I think she believes I did (which I didn't).
Anyway, two days later I tried to call her and her cell phone was off. So I wrote a SMS "Hi C, how are you? It was nice to spend the Saturday with you. I have time on Thursday, what about you? ChesterB"
She turned her phone back on one day later. (I know that because of a cool receiving confirmation feature.)
Her reply: "Hi, sorry I don't have time. I'm sorry to say this, but the kiss on Saturday was a mistake. I'm not one of those girls who are making out after the second date. I hardly know you and I've been disappointed because of this a couple of times for this reason. I don't want to take the risk. Sorry! I should have told you earlier, but this just became clear to me. I don't want to be the used one any more. mail back, C"
Damn, she seemed to have a high IL.
Do you think I can do anything to improve the situation with her?
What are your experiences? Is it generally bad to be making out on the second date?