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    The first kiss

    Hmm, here is what I did with the girl my thread No matter what you do - It's wrong!: We were standing next to each other. At some point I just put my arm around her. Some time later, we took each other's hands. Another while later I started moving my lips very close to her ear (I was more or...
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    No matter what you do - It's wrong!

    Now I thought of writing this to her: "Hey, I kissed you, because I like you and I wanted to know if you're genuine or just playing games with me. If you think that was a mistake, then I must say, you're pretty uptight." What do you think?
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    No matter what you do - It's wrong!

    @So pimp its scary: lol, it's really funny the way you put it. Yeah, maybe my kissing was too aggressive. Bah, who cares? (btw, she's 18)
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    No matter what you do - It's wrong!

    Good point, Slickster, difficult to put into practice, though. A friend of mine thinks she's playing hard to get now, because she's thinking she left a bad impression. Do you guys have more suggestions of what to write to this particular girl now and, if I have another date with her, how...
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    No matter what you do - It's wrong!

    As I wrote, I already lost lots of girls and I think one reason is because of not kissing them, but I don't know really. I'm confused now. She seemed comfortable. It didn't take too long though. Afterwards we spent another one or two hours together and she was always eager to hold my hand or...
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    No matter what you do - It's wrong!

    In the past I've lost a bunch of girls (I think) bacause I didn't make a move on them. So I changed and became more aggressive. This is what happened now: On the second date, I was making out with the girl. Afterwards she said: "You're aggressive. I didn't think you were. Ah, you men are...
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    That damn phone call

    You should prepare yourself briefly before you call: Think about what you want to say, possible reactions of hers and how you are going to react then. Take a deep breath and call. BTW, recently, I don't tell them on the phone what we're going to do, I just say, "Hey, do you have time at (day...
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    When to call after making out?

    Maybe I didn't express myself clearly: On Wednesday she has time for a date.
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    When to call after making out?

    I've been making out with that girl last night (Saturday), our second date. When we parted she said "Give me a call." Stupid me replied "Oh yeah. When do you have time?" She: "Wednesday night." Me: "I don't think that I have time then." Now I'm wondering when I should call her. Today...
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    What's an adequate reaction to this?

    I see. "To study" is the correct word. Good to know that.
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    What's an adequate reaction to this?

    Yeah, recently, I'm getting lazy when it comes to picking up chicks. LOL, I like your plan.
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    What's an adequate reaction to this?

    Explain, please.
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    What's an adequate reaction to this?

    Thanks for your replies, guys. What I want to do now is to give her one more chance, but let her know that her behavior is unacceptable. I think, I should have sent that SMS, but it's too late for that now (24 hours after she sent it). So, maybe I should mention it next time I call her...
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    making contacts in the gymnasium

    How do you get to the gym and what do you do there? I usually go by bus and do martial arts courses. If you do similar things (i.e. courses with a set end time), you can talk to people after the course in the bus. To guys you can talk in the locker room as well.
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    What's an adequate reaction to this?

    Sunday I called a girl to set up a second date on Wednesday. I told her it'd be best for me at 4 pm, because that's when the lecture I attend at the university ends. (Btw, I recommend setting up dates directly after lecture/work/school, it saves time) She basically agreed, except she has too...
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    "I have a boyfriend"

    What do you do when a girl mentions her boyfriend when you' re on a date with her?
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    Debate whether to persist on the cancelled call or not

    Oops, I didn't read the second paragraph. It doesn't seem like she's worth any trouble, but you have to decide. I agree with ToP Don.
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    Debate whether to persist on the cancelled call or not

    No. She was angry, because he didn't pick up the phone.
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    signs of high interest

    Re: Signs she's NOT interested Huh? She rejects you, then her IL goes up??? Did you ever get a date after she rejected you?
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    got digits at a bar, but shes got a bf

    Happens to me all the time. See for example this thread . I interprete that as being friends. Might be a chance.
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