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This is an awesome tip, not only for women but just in life. Its kind of a coincidence that I saw this thread, which is why I want to comment and commend the OP. I say this because over the last several days I have been purposely putting myself in situations just that there is a strong...

Has anyone read this ebook? They advertise it here on the site. I saw the preview and read the first 3 chapters they let you read for free. Looks good. Anybody read the whole thing? If so is it as good as the first 3 chapters. Interested in any feedback. Thanks

I look at porn like junk food or candy. You can consume it once in a while, but if you take too much it can cause health problems (in porns' case mentally or psychologically). However if used in moderation you should be okay. I try to view it on average about 1X a week. Kind of like how...

Excellent thread Sasha...I think every guy makes excuses I know I've been doing it alot lately. Playing tag is a big one for me though, you have a lot of confidence to do that. I just think some girls will think your'e creepy but I guess like a lot of things its all in the execution.

Great tip man.

Going in w/ lust just doesn't work for me. Being in the moment, relaxed and in a good mood always has. But if it works for some all the power to you.

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Wow thanks a lot guys, to everybody in this thread. I was actually going to ask her out again, but I see whats going on now. Your'e right grinder, I've read about this in detail here but its different when it happens to you. vitor-I didnt have her number so I couldn't call her that...

Theres this girl at work I've been pursuing for the last couple of months. Attraction was equal it seems. She is attracted to me and pretty much came out and said it. Couple of weeks back after work we are vibing and SHE set up for us to finally go out. Didnt see her for the week but saw...

Great post. Girls are pretty skilled at eye contact, well flirting in general. Better than guys I think. They can literally stare at you inflinchlingy for a long time. You have to be able to do the same. Its about the "eye of the tiger". Its unabashadly saying mentally to her "Yeah...

This all depends though. Do you act "old"? Sometimes that makes the difference, even though you look young. I'm the same age as you and have even dated a 20 year old last year. But we got along great because I like having fun, cracking jokes and dress (which is very important to women) with...

This is a great thread, and its important not to get caught up in the SS ideologies and see for yourself like: -Its okay to compliment a girl you like -Its okay to do nice things for a girl you like I think at one point I got caught up in not doing anything of the above. Part of what...

I agree with GQ confidence, its just about being in a natural state. I had a really good cold approach yesterday and number closed a cute Middle Eastern girl. I was actually not even paying attention when she sat down beside me (on the bus which I take occassionally). It was only when I...

In my opinion if you are walking around "looking for girls", it becomes obvious and on a subconcious level girls pick up on it. Futhermore it gives off a vibe of insecurity and low confidence. I honestly find you get more IOI's when you are just in the moment and not thinking about "it"...

I HIGHLY recommend having at least two pairs of nice shoes. Doesn't matter as long as it fits your style. Yes it isn't a myth women do care a lot about a guys shoes I've confirmed it with a lot of girls.

I agree, I'd also like to add that what helps for me is "warming up". That is making conversations or small talk with people who are strangers (while ordering food, waiting in line, etc). Because if you can't talk to regular people, you are sure as hell are going to find it a lot harder talk...

I agree totally, the bit*h shield is not just a bar or a club thing its up anywhere you go, and to me its just nonsensical to go on a wild goose chase opening up every girl you see in sight. Also, its understandable most guys don't want to sift through the B.S for something you MIGHT get. Its...

Well I think this is the key to success with cold approaching, is reading the buying signals. Its not fool proof but I feel comfortable going in with it, and have more success with it. Because I've heard that it doesn't matter and you should just go up to the girl no matter what, and that...

Yeah a lot of the times its just attention seeking for the most part and the same time its the classic "WTF are girls thinking?" that you can't explain. I remember several years ago I chatted up this girl after a concert and it was going really well. She gives me her number and as I come off...

I've gone through periods of watching porn a lot and periods where I've watched none whatsover. I've found its made absolutely no difference whatsover. I actually feel more relaxed after watching it though. The only way I'd feel uncomfortable is if it was a snuff film or something...